Why I hate being a girl when it comes to MC.

What anime is this?

 

Some players are just like that. They think they can hook up with other players just by saying some cheesy pickup line. Truth be told, they look totally stupid saying those lines. I agree that having a girl skin would cause some attraction from the male side (And females if they're gays*). By seeing that, my friend (A male) changed his skin to a girl skin and literally seduces players to give him their stuff XD. It's funny how some players thought they're making progression by simply complementing/giving/gifting a player with a girl skin. Then again, it kinda annoys most female players out there.

*I'm not being offensive to any gays out there. If I am, I would like to apologize for my action.

 

Well, there is one logical conclusion. I mean, I know this is me and my opinion, but love to me? Love to me, is a useless emotion. It leads to conflict. How do I know? I went through a "Love Triangle," in real life and in Minecraft. Here is how a "Love Triangle," works:


I am loved by two girls.
I do not love either of the two girls.
Those two girls are apparently friends.
Those two girls somehow figure out they both like the same guy, in this case, me.
They start fighting for the guy they like, me.
I feel guilty for being the reason of them hating each other, especially when they were once good friends. (This is still happening today..)
It goes on for a looong time.

Believe me, people love to rush into relationships based on their own feelings. (Before I go on, remember that this is what I think, not facts, maybe to some of you, such as me, but this remains entitled to my own opinion.) People do not consider what the one they want to be their girl/boyfriend feel. As in the example above, they fought with each other for me, ruining their friendship, making me feel bad. I didn't want to date either of them, yet they continue to pursue me. If you ask me, love is just an endless cycle of hatred. Of course, there are exceptions to where a boy and girl, or if you are gay, can come into an agreement of loving each other, which is the way I prefer, but otherwise, most relationships only last for at the most two years if they are rushed. Here is how I think it should be taken:

A boy and girl meet.
They start talking.
They like each other (AS FRIENDS).
They decide to do some stuff together (RP's, skin comps, hanging out, clubs, etc.).
They see each other for a little bit as much as they can for fun.
They hang out more often.
They develop a closer bond.
They come to agree about their feelings for each other so that it doesn't make any conflict.
Both sides are happy.

Remember, this is just my opinion, but I think this is the most logical way, though I understand nothing can be achieved without a little pain. What do you think?

 

Just keep in mind that every boy asking to go out with you on minecraft is a nine year old who thinks he's clever
That should help you learn get used to it XD

 

Very true... Very true... Either that, or it's someone planning to grief you. That's what happened to me, except it was with a girl.

 

Lol basically.


Although, ppl don't realize . . . Sera and I got together, and there is a 3-yr difference between us. The only reason we haven't been all "ermehgwerd hai sura I luv u" in public is to avoid hate <3

 

Dun tell anyone. I met a guy like 3 months ago, and we are really good friends now. Whenever I was on skyblock, I would just stay at his island and talk to him. I thought of him as a friend, when I didn't know he thought of me as something more. It had only been 1 month and he 'asked me out'. At first I said yes, then I said no. Now 2 months later I have developed some feelings for him, but he likes someone else. It's been 3 months, not 2 days. ^Some example of 'normal-ness'. It took me 3 months to figure out that I genuinely liked his personality. I would never date a guy through MC after I met him 2 days ago. Learn to get to know people!

 

Basically what I said earlier... XD Life lesson learned.

 

YUS, we connected within 2 minutes, lets date (This is what you do not do)!

 

Here was my situation in both real life and in minecraft:

In MINECRAFT:

(Girl I will not mention name of since she grieved me): Hey, you look cute! Let's go out!
Me: Um, whatever, just don't expect me to know what to do, I'm not exactly romantic...

In real life:

"She": Wow, you're so nice and funny! Won't you go out with me cutie pie?
Me: *Gives weird look* I'm not romantic. I have only known you in a way since Kindergarten. It's not like we make a great match. You are a pop diva... And me? Well. I'm kind of serious and somewhat shady...
"She": But it doesn't matter! You look nice to me, you probably think I look nice, we both make a great match!
Me: *Sigh* I think I'm gong to go for now...

I do not want to post the "Love Triangle," situation since that will most likely be heart-breaking to you and may put a sad side on you.

 

I actually saw this happen at school)

A guy in my class asks out a girl that he never talked to or interfered with her. I mean whut, who does thaaat?

 

An immature person who apparently rushes into a relationship. One must get to know the one they intend to form a relationship with. As I said before, it is logical if one approached slowly instead of immediately asking her out. Believe me, sometimes this leads to depression, which leads to... Stuff... Sometimes... Normally this results from a rejection. Did the guy in your class get into a relationship with her? If so, then I have a secondary theory. It's science!

 

Dun do grugs. That is effect.

 

Don't do drugs huh? Come to think of it, I saw someone at my school being expelled for smoking "Something." He was always high and literally harassed girls.. In the bad way... In the perverted way... ANOTHER LIFE LESSON! :p

 

Ew. Nasty people out there.

 

No kidding? Believe me, people are worse. Ever heard of a "(Censored)(You must be very mature and start a conversation with me in order for you to know about the horrors of people out here. I know there are kids in this forums so I am not going to post it publicly. I will tell you if you are 13+ years of age.)?" If not, then sorry for bringing that up. If you are a kid, disregard this message and forget that I ever mentioned them. It is someone who (CENSORED, CENSORED, CENSORED, and well, I don't really want to explain it, but they are out there....)

 

Mmm, Ronda, you look nice today. Like a sunrise! :>

 

My backup excuse:

"Hey, let's date"




"Apologies, bagels are and forever will be my love my soul my family and my reason for existence sorry ok thanks bye have a nice day dont expect to see me ever again or talk to you bye"

 

Yeah, I feel ya for sure. One time I had a girl skin because my sister changed it to that right? Ok so I get on this server and in the first few minutes I get totally bombarded and pretty much became an Admin! xD

 

...Exactly why I use an animal skin instead of a normal girl skin - most people just treat you like a normal player. Does have a few drawbacks though. On another server today, within ten minutes of logging in, I got called a boy twice... really awkward >_<