First of all, I know that lots of you are probably very confused by now. First I said I was a girl, if I can recall correctly, afterwards I said I was a boy then I quickly said it was a joke. Then I said I'm a boy again, this time 100% serious. I know that this may confused a lot of you guys, thinking "wait so what gender is Fawn?" what do I have to say about that? Fuck genders. I am anatomically female, if that answers one of your questions. "So do we need to refer to you by female pronouns?" no no no Until I say you can refer to me by either female or male pronouns, refer to me by they/them pronouns. "They/them? Are you serious?" agender Without gender. Often used as an identification for people who do not identify with or conform to any gender. (Source: Urban Dictionary) "That's stupid! You're a human, not an item" Who said I was an item? They/them aren't "it". A lamp is an "it", a cake is an "it", not a human. Never call they/them "it". Never. It insults us as much as it insults a normal person if you call them "it". TL;DR call me by they/them pronouns until I tell you it's okay to refer to me by male/female pronouns. To another small topic – my name I didn't really want to include this in this thread but I felt like I need to lay it off my chest. Some of you probably noticed that I "changed" my irl name a few times here, saying a different name every time. I do this for a personal reason which I will not state (it's "personal" for a reason). No, this is not related to online-stranger-danger, something else. I was supposed to pick one pseudonym name, but me being the fucktard I am, I can't choose a name and stick with it. In result I had like 1,000000 pseudonym names. Unless I say something is my real name, it's most likely fake. I will reveal my real name soon. -+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+ I hope this clears up some shit ty for reading
Slip ups as for misgendering me? Really depends on the occasion. If it's a person who have known me at the time I was "female" or "male", then it's fine, forgiven. But if it's someone who looks at my recent posts and knows what genders I want people to refer to me, but still misgenders me, then it's a problem. If you noticed, I got pretty mad at people who misgendered me for a girl, that's because if I had to either be called by female or male pronouns I would probably choose male. It's like, I'm agender, but male-pronouns "biased".
I'm still confused I think I'll just continue to use "Fawn" or whatever name you choose instead of using pronouns. Or use singular "they/them" instead of these weird invented gender-neutral pronouns.
Specific gender: Fawn likes kpop, his favorite band is EXO Agender: Fawn likes kpop, their favorite band is EXO Specific gender: Fawn is very picky when it comes to eating meat, he isn't a big fan of it Agender: Fawn is very picky when it comes to eating meat, they aren't a big fan of it Do you understand it better now?