Dealing with Hate on Minecraft?

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  1. NinjaGumball

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    I didn't know whether this should be here, or in the minecraft section. So first, I want to ask, is it against rules to repost it there? But anyway,
    Lately, I've been getting a LOT of hate on Minecraft
    I know allot of you will say "Wow, you're so weak! It's a freaking game!" But for me, it brings up a lot of bad memories of being bullied. And I've cried because of the horrible comments about me 3 nights in a row already. They say things like "I wouldn't care if you killed yourself." "No one cares about you." "You're probably really ugly irl." "Shut the f*ck up already, ninja." I've reported some of it already. I'm sick of it. This part is really personal but...
    If I wasn't in the hospital for a suicide attempt (due to other stuff going on in my life) I would have cut myself.
    I don't want to seem pathetic or over emotional. ._. I'm already really vulnerable right now. I talk to people on minecraft to distract myself and they're the only friends I have. For some reason, other things that can hurt me, won't. Like my mom trying to make me feel guilty earlier tonight. I didn't cry. I didn't feel anything. I was numb. But with bullying of any kind, it hits this spot that no matter how many people are defending me, no matter how many people are bullying me, it hurts like hell. Please give me advice. Thanks in advance <3 -NinjaGumball
     
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  2. QueenAngel32

    QueenAngel32 I'm up ❤

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    Im so sorry Ninja :(


    i hope u feeling better
     
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  3. hammiestar

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    Try to ignore them,
    I know its a hard time atm but everything will go better soon,
    GL :(
    #Respect
     
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  4. brickman802

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    I know it's really hard for you. My solution is that you ignore them. or eat them
     
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  5. Ninjaman

    Ninjaman Goodbye letter in info page

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    Wow... That sucks. I was bullied too but try and stay strong. If you find that difficult, I will come on creative1 more often and help. #NinjasHelpNinjas
     
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  6. sprinkles24799

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    tbh, I know how you're feeling. I have friends I hang around but they make me feel small, unwanted and basically useless. Its not nice to feel like that and it really brings you down and to go and play something you love (minecraft) to escape from reality and people be mean to you there, it feels like you cant escape from anything. just stay strong and just remember in the long run they are probably jealous of you or they feel bad about themselves and have to take it out on someone who doesn't need or deserve it . xox
     
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  7. Awesomena123

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    Ignore them dint give them the power to make u sad
     
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  8. Rila

    Rila Pyro is top bae

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    Replying them, only makes them bully you more. Everyone is unique in their own ways. Don't forget that. Also, suiciding might not be the answer to everything. You might feel really sad and all, but sooner or later you'll get over it.
     
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  9. teitan

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    Man. You honestly deserve better. I'm terribly sorry this is happening to you. Ignore them.
     
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  10. PredatorToad

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    I think there's a /ignore command on the server, try using that :)
     
  11. Rila

    Rila Pyro is top bae

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    Erm, the /ignore command is no longer here.
     
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  12. PredatorToad

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    That sucks :(
     
  13. iBearzHD Plays

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    I've been bullied by whole life, just because im way taller and way larger then everyone in my grade. No one talks to me, I just have my teacher and thats it. -Raslink6
     
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