Apology .

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  1. kathrine

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    Hello everyone, recently I have been thinking about my actions in the past and recently/currently and I have finally decided to apology for my mistakes and behavior. I was in the faze when I thought oh I'm 13,14 and I'm a teenager and I am so cool. And now I feel a lot more mature about situations with anything around those lines. I am finally 15 already have a job, and am really taking things serious now. I understand in the past I have said I am going to change and that sort of stuff. However, I find these situations a lot more serious and more intentive now. I am going to change my behavior towards others and especially towards staff, I will try and keep the conversations age appropriate. I have a couple people I would love to apologize to.

    @MrDeathWilliam - I am sorry that recently I have been judging your ways. Along with that just disrespecting you in terrible way. I certainly hope we can become closer.

    @Jessiee - I am sorry I have been acting unpleasantly towards you recently, I miss the days when we used to talk. I most certainly hope that we can start talking again.

    @Cingle - before you where staff I used to be in-despicably rude and offensive towards. And I'm sorry about anything I have said to you. And recently I have been acting unacceptable towards you.

    @Tayahs - I hope we can become friends again. I am so sorry about talking crap about you even on skype and within the server, in all honestly I was just jealous.

    @Slothie_ i realize I have been rude to you in particular. I was just mad about the breakup and was taking out my anger on you which was a really terrible decision to follow.

    @Zackery - i know I ment a lot to you and on my part I didn't really intend to push you away, and I'm sorry for that but I am thankful we are reconnecting again.


    (Etc)

    I hope you all can except my apologys. :(
     
  2. YFIOTR

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    It takes great courage (starting to doubt that nowadays, since the trend continues) to make these, but if you realize, a lot of this could be settled privately. Also, you can just start acting better. There's no need to tell us (the community). It's like you think we are not smart enough to notice your actions, so you need to give us a heads up. I promise, we are aware of change.

    However, if you're going to tell us all this, what is the point of being so general?

    "am sorry that recently I have been judging your ways. Along with that just disrespecting you in terrible way"

    How so? I'm very confused considering the only thing I saw was on Joseph's thread. What I saw was not even bad. Anyone is allowed to question the ways of others respectfully as you did. Maybe you're too sensitive? That's the idea I get by your thread, which is not what you intended.

    "Am sorry I have been acting unpleasantly towards you recently, I miss the days when we used to talk. I most certainly hope that we can start talking again."

    Very general... Not sure what idea others get from this. Perhaps someone sassing Jessie, making crude rumors, and telling her to go fuck herself?

    Tbh, who doesn't say that to her? :)

    That's definitely not what you intended, but same as before, being general opens misconceptions.

    Basically, I'm trying to say that these threads are general apologies that give others the wrong idea about what really went on, leading to perhaps an opposite result to what the poster intended. No one wants to be specific about what he or she did in a public thread. Therefore they have no point.
     
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  3. Jakt

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    Okay, don't me hate me for this, but we're still friends and all, but honestly, you've made too many apologys without any change, like that's I've noticed, sorry if I'm harrasing or rude but you haven't changed a lot from the last once, maybe this time mean it, like some players makes apology threads every month or so, it's getting annoying by now, but this will be the last time, I'll accept, your apology, this time, change.
     
  4. kathrine

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    This is my second apology thread..
    The last one I had done was months and months ago
     
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    Saying the same thing over and over again causes it to lose its meaning. If you want you make a change, don't hype it up. You are the only one who can change the world around you. Actions speak louder than words after all.
     
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  6. kathrine

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    Yes I do understand that but before my actions i would have just liked to say sorry.
     
  7. left4lag

    left4lag Moderator Plus Staff Member Mod+

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    I apologize to my friends in Skype for what I've done, I promised change, but did not deliver. Now my "friends" barely even talk to me. Let me just say, if you really mean what you say, do it. I've lost a few friends by not keeping my promises. Even though I barely even talk/see you, don't make the same mistakes I made. ;-;
     
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  8. Safoya

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    Props to you for the confidence^^
     
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  9. _Magical

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    It's always good to make sure everyone knows that you're sorry for your mistakes :)
    I'm sure it's all g gurl
     
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    I may not know you as well as some other people, but apologizing was the right thing to do. All though you may not be able to take back what you said, it means a lot to know that you are sorry and doing so takes guts.
     
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