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Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by rosellavio, Oct 30, 2016.

  1. rosellavio

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    Hello guys :)

    Today my best friend EVER just broke or friendship. I'm not really gonna post on forums as much right now because I'm going to be too busy choking on chunky monkey ice cream in my room. This is the first time I've lost a friend, so I'm pretty much depressed now. My friend was not just a friend, we were almost like brother and sister. That friend meant SO MUCH to me. Now, he just ignores me, calls me stupid, says "were over" and much more. See you guys later.

    Yes, I'm answering comments lol
     
  2. Odilon

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    this is pretty obvious but apologise. -make the move i guess. don't wait for shit that ain't gonna happen. life's too short to try and make a point, just apologise for whatever u did, who cares if you're not right. i learnt it the hard way.
     
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  3. rosellavio

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    I'm never going to see her again though. We don't have social media and she is going to transfer schools. I'll probably get like 1 hour but to explain my feelings it would take longer.
     
  4. left4lag

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    I used to have a bestfriend. Then his sister and my sister were fighting over something stupid then poof. He kinda just disappeared. Now in the special event I see him, he acts like I don't exist. Haven't had a "bestfriend" since then. Sucks too. I trust him with a lot of stuff and the fact he'd just leave like that without even caring hurts. Just talk with him/her and at least try to sort things out. If you don't, you'll regret it later on.
     
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  5. rosellavio

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    Well, if you guys say so I may give it a shot.
     
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  6. Joel

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    Just say "Look, your too special to lose, I ain't giving up, that's not how I roll"
     
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  7. rosellavio

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    That's not how I talk, I never say " that's how we roll " and I'm not really looking for advice right now lol. That's a pretty good comeback, just doesn't sound like me.
     
  8. CrayonLogic

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    Say this ( warning the following speech took 20 hours to write viewer discussion is advised ) " hey I'm super sorry for What I did I really want us to be friends again because I felt special with you I had this feeling that I could be Around you and no one else and I hope we can be friends again" told ya
     
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  9. rosellavio

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    that works
     
  10. AreThreeSeaTea

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    Just tell her the truth, can't explain it much more than that. This may sound corny but explain to her how you truly feel about her. How much she means to you and that you don't want your friendship to be over. Insight her on all the fun things you will do together and remind her of the good times you've had and the laughs you've shared. Remind her of how you became friends and how you always will be. Don't lose her, cause if theres on thing worth keeping in your life, it's a best friend.

    Tell her these things the next time you see her and look into her eyes. Be sentimental towards it so she knows how much she means to you as a friend. As a best friend.

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