My Encounter With A Rough Path.

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by capsa, Sep 10, 2016.

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  1. capsa

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    Thanks Chosen. You mean alot to me.
     
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    I'm sorry this happened to you, Capsa. Though I never really speak to you, I still admire you. I wish we talked more, you seem very cool.
    And if you ever need someone to talk to, you can always PM me, I'll try my best to help.
    Things will get better each and every day, and I'll pray they do. :)
     
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    You are amazing, Punisher. Thank you for this comment, it really boosted my mood. I appreciate you and this comment, thank you.
     
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    I'm sorry that this happened to you, and those bullies should be punished. It's also surprising they would even do that a Christian school.
     
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    It is pretty surprising, but oh well, bullies will be bullies.
     
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    Are they getting in trouble for it? From the way you described, it sounds like they aren't. Doesn't your school have anti-bullying policies?
     
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    well it's kind of hard to catch and eradicate bullying sometimes, I guess.
     
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    Bullies are bad, I get it, and everyone gets treated the way they treat others, It's just like how every action has a reaction, so they get bullied too.

    I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, It's honestly horrible and I really feel bad for you.
    To me the best way to get bullies away is to stand up to them and talk to them about it, I'm not very good at this kind of stuff but hey I'm trying.

    I hope you feel better soon, You're a nice person and you deserve better. c:
     
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    Cha0s_x MrBubblyNaruto

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    I've had a friend with similar issues, driven away from everything because of people who have nothing better to do than blatantly insult her. I'll tell you what I've told her, and many other people as well. People will go out of their ways to tear someone apart from the inside, mentally, and you cannot allow them to do so. It's hard to ignore, I know, but if you stand there like a stone wall, with determination, you can truly show them words cannot hurt you. Those people purely attack others because they are going through something themselves. Ultimately, to feel better, you should try to ignore them, don't let their words and actions bother you. If it does get to you, talk to someone about it, they'll be there for you by your side. But as long as you show them that you're not harmed by them, they'll stop. If you need someone to talk to, even though we aren't acquainted in any means, I can and will be here for you. I sincerely hope things get better for you.
     
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    I can relate to this.
    All I know is, is that, it will pass.
    I also got badly bullied.
    Took me a long time to get over it, but eventually I made new friends, and my bad memories just disappeared.
    Sometimes, I do still think about those times.
    But hey, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. ;)
    We're all here for you. :)
     
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    I can totally relate
    I just graduated from elementary and just started middle school not too long ago. One day during break my friends from elementary went out to Subway without me and I knew things were starting to get sketchy. After break I asked them why they didn't invite me, they just laughed and ran away. I haven't done anything to them nor I wouldn't, so I just avoided them the whole day. The second day got even worse. They were posting 'squad' pictures on Instagram without me. I got my old friend who moved away to investigate. She asked one of my friends why they were avoiding me. She said that I was being rude and I clearly don't remember being rude, I was one of the nicest people in the group and I don't understand why they would kick me out. Then the next day, they started getting their friends from their classes to hate me. They harassed me on social media, no one would sit near me, or talk to me. This is why I go on here, everyone here is so nice and people don't actually ignore me. Thank you all for the support, it means a lot. Just letting you guys know I don't cut anymore so I'm fine now! :D
     
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    They aren't getting into trouble, actually, as I do not want them to. Thing is, on Monday, the principal pulled me out of class, saying he found out what the bullies are doing, after a "throw away" comment said on a lunchtime, and that they are apparently targeting me. So, he would like to take action, but I never wanted the situation brought up, so I am very iffy on it.
    True Snuffles, true.
    Thank you so much Icy. It's so great that I have fellow staff supporting me, and are there for me, thank you!
    They have been rude for a while, and I have spoken to my parents. I honestly can't stand being in the same environment as them. I really do not want to go up to the school saying I am getting bullied, because I've done it before, and it has made everything worse. Apart from that, thank you.
    That is so true. I am sorry that you got bullied, you shouldn't have. You seem like some a sweet person. Thank you, I really appreciate it.
    It is great knowing you don't self harm anymore. I am so sorry you have been through that, you did not deserve it. They are honestly fake friends, so don't be friends with them again. We are all here for you <33 And thank you for this, it kind of opened my eyes a bit more.
     
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    I'm sorry, just thought I could lend some advice that might help you. Things shouldn't get worse when you tell an adult, it should help. Again, I can be here for you, as a voice or as a listener.
     
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    Thank you alot, that means alot.
     
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    RealTDITyler Will you love me after all the mistakes I've made?

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    Aw, bullies are horrible. I feel your pain. Lots of our lives duck unfortunately. Just remember at least half the community will be willing to support you.
     
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    Reading this back, I almost cried. All I remember is hearing you crying in calls with me about them, it absolutely broke me hearing you upset like that. I'm happy yet upset that you're moving schools next term. You leaving all of your friends that you've had for over half of your life. I can't even imagine what you went through. I'm glad that you finally can get away from these horrible people. I love you so god damn much, and we are all so thankful that you trust us with your personal life information.
     
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