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Heyooo

we all have these feelings time to time, it's human nature!
Just know you have lots of people that care about you wether it be in the community or at home!


it's fine to feel these things and I hope you feel better soon, which I'm sure you will, I know this probably won't help but I find words of kindness helped me through my sad days,,
Trust me when I say the bad days are worth getting through because then come the good, great and amazing days

Stay strong you!!
❤️

 

HELLO

Almost everyone is going through this, trust me, I did aswell. And I got through it c: If you ever feel like talking, you could talk about it with people you trust. There are people who care about you. Don't worry! I hope you will feel better soon.

 

Jerome, it's perfectly fine to feel this way. We all get down, it's fine.
Before I go into my initial thoughts, just know that thinking down/bad about yourself is not the right way to think. A key to a positive life is being confident about yourself, knowing that you are a good person.

Look, how old are you? 12. I am not trying to make a joke about this.
You're 12. You are 12.
You have been on this earth..for twelve years. Only twelve years. That is little to none when you think about it.
The thing is, the younger we are, the more things we don't know. Like, I probably know more about life than you do and we're 2-3 years apart in age. And when I was at your age, I probably only knew as much as you do. You are going to make mistakes, that is the truth and fact. Only you can decide if you want to learn from them.

Moving on,
teenage years are literally the worst. Am I right?
Like, again, I do not intend this post to be partaken as a joke any way.
You're at the age where you start..going..through a change. Something that can be confusing, something that can hurt, something that can be sad. You need to keep a positive attitude throughout it, and stay strong. You are cared about.

With the crush thing, and I know it's hard, but if this is beating you up this much, don't worry about it man. There are tons more important things to worry about, whether you like it or not. School, staying healthy and positive, you name it. Don't focus on love as much as you seem to do, as it can backfire. Also, again, I know this may be hard, but try to talk it out with someone. Possible a therapist, that has helped me out in the past.

As to your attitude, as I did say earlier, only you can choose if you want to learn from your mistakes. Attitude-wise, see what happens when you say certain things and learn to embrace the thing you have, the ability to think. Think before you act, think before you talk.

If you feel like you have too much pressure, just talk to your parents. They love you, trust me.
They will most likely understand, just explain to them how you are feeling. I know it may be hard, but this is possibly one of the best options you have.



I know you didn't talk about this in the thread, but I want to note about it.
Suicide is never the answer.
It is never the answer.
It is never the answer.
It is..never the answer.

Understand that, it is never the answer. I have..thoughts about it in the past, but I know it's never the answer. Life will get better, trust me my friend. And as I said earlier, our teenage years can probably be the toughest as you are starting to mature into the adult you will be.


And if people didn't care, if I didn't care, I wouldn't have sat here and typed this for 10-15 minutes straight. You are not alone my friend, you have this community, you have your friends, and you have your family.

 

I'm here if you need to talk to me.

 

thanks for the advice. this is exactly what i needed. i feel somewhat better now. ill just try to keep being happy.
i think i got what i needed fro mthis thread

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