All of this based off of appearance? People would probably say that I look like a sleep-deprived nerd and weeaboo based on my looks... but only my friends say that. Dude, you're cool. Don't quote me on that, but you are. As long as you don't look like a gangster or Justin Beiber, you are not a f*ckboy. You may, however, be a fuckboy. Haha, I did a funny.
It's funny how people don't know the difference between a fuckboy and an attractive person. If you have a haircut that somewhat looks like you care a little about your own appearance people will automatically say that it is to impress girls or whatever. Also, ALMOST every guy has a fuckboy inside (I used almost in capital letters to prevent myself from getting different types of genders and what not to get into defense mode), because who doesn't like attention from girls, and who wouldn't be in for some romance, you know? So, my call is they just call you a fuckboy because you're more attractive than themselves, and as jealousy can cause people to say weird things, chances are that they are just jealous :) Also, you're not a loser for having people to think of you as someone who likes to be around girls, or at least, that's how I think of it. Girls are awesome, especially when they are interested in you as well ^_^ Don't feel like a loser bro
So basically you were afraid of judgement on who you really are and your opinion. It is hard, especially with the people who judge people by their looks these days. One problem is that people see a person, but they automatically judge them for how they look. I disagree with this completely, but it still exists nonetheless. It doesn't matter if you are, in fact, a fuckboy or not. Even if you were, your opinions or interests don't define who you are at all. The people that have judged you for your looks have no right to judge, as it is no one's place to judge another human. Your sexual life and interests are private and are your business. They are not to be announced by someone else, especially from nothing but appearance. I am not going to say I am the same as you, but I am an abnormal person myself. Although I appear to be a male on the outside, I am able to display different personalities that are both masculine and feminine. I have had the emotions of a woman from time to time, and even consider myself to be one. However, this fact has been read by others that I am gay/bisexual. My sexuality has never been determined, as I have never fallen in love with a male nor a female, and little do I intend to any time soon. I was often called a freak of nature by some of my real friends. But honestly, if someone is willing to judge us for who we really are, they're not a true friend. If you have to pretend to be someone that you're not just to be their friend, then they aren't truly a friend, and they don't deserve your friendship. I have no feelings of anger/hatred toward you, nor am I going to laugh at you, because we all have our dark secrets, and not everyone is comfortable with everyone knowing them. You have my full support, JWD. If you need to talk about anything, you can PM me. -Sirius
I feel ya when I first revealed my face and said I was 15 people thought I was lying. I was this close to posting a picture of my birth certificate.
In today's society, people are childish and label people as soon as they see them. A "fuckboy" is none other than a word. Don't let this bs bring you down.
My brother calls me an emo because of my fringe (its parted to the right because its to long and covers my eyes) and to make it worst he things its some Japanese trend just because I have a... Out of control interest in the country.... So your are not alone but don't let them bring you down. Don't them let win
To be honest, I would never call you a f*uck boy at all. I saw as a normal person and now that you're facing these people it makes me respect you so much more now. (kudos to you for doing that) Honestly I'm almost the same but the difference is I like to build things and I would say a HUGE nerd. Anyways dude I feel you and this generation is screwed up so It's normal for people to be called a f*uck boy