A Word about Bullying

Hey there fellow J&H members and staff,


I have noticed bullying around the server, forums and even in real life lately. I would like to write a message to all of the people who care about the future for the many people who experience bullying and for you, the reader of course. From forums to servers and even real life, this situation may occur anywhere right now. So I would like to share some thoughts and other information with you about bullying. So sit back relax, get popcorn or something and enjoy reading this.


First of all, bullying is a bad thing. It makes the bullied victim feel bad for themselves and make the bully feel good about it. Do you want a community like this? Many people experience bullying. From real life to cyber. It spreads and spreads like a disease. Quote “Approximately one in four Year 4 to Year 9 Australian students (27%) report being bullied every few weeks or more often (considered to be frequent) during the last term at school.” Wait wait what’s that? You’re saying that 27% is an alright amount? Think about it again. According research it says, from 2013-2014, students in Australia rose from 3,645,519 - 3,694,101. That’s around 136818.55 kids getting bullied frequently during the last term at school. Not even that but many kids around the world get bullied. Oh and don’t forget adults getting bullied as well. Just because people who have reached adulthood doesn’t mean they give up bullying. It continues and continues and never stops like a fisher man fishing for fish.




When that rod goes in the water, it tries to catch a fish. The longer you wait, the more tired you become. When it finally comes out of the water, you have caught a fish.


I am going to use this as an example of bullying. Yes yes I did not copy that top part, I created it myself with creativity. Back on topic here, what I am trying to say about the example:

When the rod goes in the water, it tries to catch a fish: It’s pretty much like a bully trying to catch a victim

The longer you wait, the more tired you become: The longer you wait for someone to speak up for bullying, the more people that are being bullied will continue to be bullied and you are tired of it.

When it finally comes out of the water, you have caught a fish: When someone finally speaks up about bullying, the bully is then exposed.

This is a serious bullying crime that should not be tolerated.​

I think I have spoken way to long there. I could go on for ever with this but I think I should stop here. Before I got though I wanted to make this note to just tell you what’s going on out there. My personal
feelings for bullying is very high and this is the proof and dedication I am against for bullying. On Friday 18th of March (wait it’s today? I had no idea!) is National Day of Action against Bullying and Violence in Australia. So don’t be afraid to stand up for what is right and make the world and your neighbourhood a friendly place.


I tried to make this as fun and let you understand what’s happening but it came out different than I thought with an extra fun I added some Undertale pics. Since Undertale changed my life in way I decided to include it. Thank you all for reading this, it took much effort, about 1 hour of personal work and dedication putting aside my work and remember:

DON'T BE AFRAID TO MAKE A STAND​

Thank you so much
~HC

 

I know many of us have been bullied more than I could wish on anyone. The thing is, we still preserve, and I'm proud of it. Thanks for making this. I'm gonna need a tissue for my eye sweat now.

 

This got to me. This got to me very hard. Thank you for posting this, HC. I honestly think this thread was needed. Bullying is not something anyone should go through, or experience in their lifetime. It is a horrible thing. I remember getting bullied, and I know how its like to be bullied. It hurts. It lowers your self esteem. It makes you feel less about yourself. It just makes you feel like a horrible person. I got bullied for 2 or so years, and it's not fun. I came home, crying, screaming, depressed and full of fear for the next day.
I want everyone to know, bullying doesn't define you as a person. You are an amazing person, and I will always love you, and be there for you.

REMEMBER THIS
Understand your absolute importance.
Press that send button. Say how you feel.
If you don't say it now, you never will.
Do not sneer at happiness or roll your eyes at sadness
Be aware that apathy is not healthy.
No one should be able to control you like that. It will get better.
But it will never be perfect. The trick is to learn to live through the small moments of happiness.
When they disappear, remember they will resurface.
Please, take care of yourself. You are everything to somebody.
That alone is enough.
That alone is everything.
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I feel your pain. I understand the feeling. We will make a stand to this bullying. Your words will be remembered.
(I love your creative post)

 

Ive been bullied like my whole life and when people use to say "it gets better" i usually tell them to stfu because in my eyes it will get worst. Well it has for me anyways. Bullying is bad people need to stand up for it. Easier said than done. Trust me.

 

Being bullied can change from want to live or want to be dead, it can be small words that's never meant to hurt but in truth it does, it can be when misunderstand a joke smack on the bad as they want to bully you, but sometimes you've to grow up, take it like a grow up, if someone is bullying you, you've to relise there only doing to get two things and I'll list them down bellow.

Attention: They want to become popular in school or in the city there in and what better way then bully someone so hard to make them want to kill themself? that's a good ideea in their minds, but reality isn't or shouldn't be so, but sometimes people aren't meant to bully someone becuase there doing themself they can get into problems in their group of "friends" are requesting you to do it, otherwise they feel themself left out and that isn't what they want themself getting bullied and it's a sad part of humanity it won't become great without a effort to change of old habits, trust me it's a sad part people try to hide as they don't wanna belive it, but LISSEN AND WAKE UP, this isn't a dream, it's our newcomes anyways, might even be our children later down the road, we're making it worse for our community/world by doing this, as our kids/younger people to be bullies themself or be bullied and do nothing about it.


Feelings of being weak/afraid: Most bullies themself are afraid of being the weak person online/school and they don't want that, so they harrass people of their weak/fears in lifes, it's a proven facts in many different threads/posts by famus people and it's can be hard to understand but it's mostly that reason or it's becuase they've been throw a lot of bad things in their life themself and they think it's should be fair in life, but doing that won't make it fair only worse, it won't gain anything from it, nor inprove anything, you might feel yourself powerful for a little time but when it's gone and they bullied becomes the bullies themself and doing the same thing to the first people who did it, it's a never ending time lop, we can't change it many belive but I think we can, if we see flaws in a person, don't make fun of them for it. Say the things that they don't have as a flaw, mostly, otherwise you'll make a toxic community/city grow & grow, people realise if anyone here is a bully please don't continue, you'll hurt yourself more then anyone else.

I made this at 1 am in the night so most things won't be understanded but still, I wanted to prove my point of it, I hope you like this comment.