So, this is a thread about me and my sad life and here is another reason why my life sucks: Yesterday (8-1-2016) i wake up, as always 6:30, i do stuff, go downstairs for breakfast. Then i hear my phone, it is my best friend, we always ride to school together, so i say yes, let's go, While going to school, we're having fun, until pause, I'm walking, with my BEST friend, i call him Jimmy, to the aula and go get a place to sit, as always, Jay (the guy from the phone) and a few others join us, but this time not. So I'm sitting there with Jimmy and we're just eating something, thats all. Then Jay walks to our table, and he starts bullying us: Jay: Are you two having a nice date? Me: What are you talking about? Jay: About you and your dog (he calls Jimmy my dog, as always) Jimmy: Leave us alone. Jay: no(he continues his story), When are you going to marry, have you got your first kiss yet, etc :( Me: Shut up! The others came to our table and do the same thing, I left the table, go to the lesson. I'm at the classroom, waiting till the bell rings. In the classroom, i sit next to Jimmy, We didn't talk the whole lesson, i was just making some drawings. When the bell rings, I'm like ''Yes, im free'' I'm leaving the room, and i feel a hand on my shoulder, it was Bilal, one of 'them' He wanted to say something to me, but the teacher stopped him, thanks, god for saving me! This happened before with Jay, he was bullying me over and over, he didn't know it hurts me, i criend one time, he said sorry, It was OK. But now he did it again... I made this myself: You've got friends for life, You've got your life for a friend ---- Friendship is your life, Your life is friendship ---- But if friendship is broken, Your life is broken ---- The bullies say sorry, but then, its to late In one day, a few friends became enemies, I've still got hope, You are my hope, Thanks everyone, For reading this.
I know how it feels... I still get bullied but I learned to defend myself. Thank God that the bullies are quiet now. The worst thing is that the bullies do not realise how much words can hurt. If you ever need help, please ask. <3 Good luck :(
If these guys are your "friends" then maybe they don't realize they're hurting you. Tell them it is, and if they keep doing it, then they're not your friends. Try to ignore them, because if you show them its not bothering you anymore after you tell them, they'll stop. If it escalates even further, tell the teacher you trust the most, or in some cases, call the police.
That was deep I have been bullied before so I know how it feels. I never even knew people could be so cruel
Well, if it would be me, I would try to defend myself otherwise. I wouldn't start the "Shut ups" and "Leave us alones". That's what he's going for, he wants you to rage. I would show him all the fuck I give about it and when his pals arrived, I would say something like "Oh, there's a parade of morons here. Why don't you present me YOUR boyfriend here, Jay? Or you already broke up with all of them?" Etc. In short, show them that you're not the person to be messing with, and if that don't work, you can always get yourself a group of people that will help you. Ex: The teacher.