Hi everybody, Blossom here. I created this thread to the people in the world who have the urge to suicide. Suicide is a big deal. It doesn't just hurt you, but it impacts your friends' and family's lives. Think twice about it. Suicide is not something to look forward to. It will hurt a lot of people, not just you. <- That can also show that you show a selfish mood if you suicide. You're thinking about yourself, and not what it will do to your relatives, friends, etc. People will be sad and hurt. My best friend once committed suicide because of me. So, I just wanted to let everyone know, don't look forward to suicide. It won't just hurt you, but others too. Feel free to post a story of a suicide that has impacted you, or just feel free to comment down below. Thanks, Blossom
Suicide is also a thing to not be joked, it can be caused by a lot of problems (bullying, no friends at school etc..) If you do decide to jump off a 30 storey building, then has it really come to you that you have nobody who cares about you? then think again, it impacts a lot of people, your friends, your family, less even your enemies, some wont mind anyway etc.. It is pretty easy to tell when someone is on the verge of suicide when they start being alone, having a terrible mood, constant panic attacks, it is all part of depression, and that's also a serious topic, but that's not what we're talking about, at least. But I have also been on the verge of suicide a few times, too, it happens to a lot more people, again, less even your enemies, one of these reasons are very vital. It should be helped when someone does want to suicide, because if they spare time for everyone else to say something, then it would probably be too late, then you shouldn't suicide. Some only just laugh, and that's partially what makes them suicide, it's no big surprise. I would say to them just take a second to imagine what it was like if you were in their shoes? then that would not really be funny to them, which also kind of solves it. Thank you for making this thread, best wishes. EDIT: TL;DR: Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, and there are things that trigger it.
suicide is definitely not the answer. it will get better, trust me anyone who is reading this. there are so many sources of happiness in life, even though it seems like there isn't, there really is. this is an awesome thread, good idea :)
You are correct about it not being the answer -- Suicide is never the answer I am a survivor of suicide actually... It's not so much the selfish way that you think but a different selfish. People who think of suicide as an option can't see past their problems. Their constantly clouded and reminded every day of those mistakes. Suicide can be triggered by many things bullying, abusive relationships, friendships, illnesses. All sorts of things can cause it. Please if you feel suicidal GET HELP go to a professional or call someone on a line. Don't go to th Internet or help. It can only help you so much. I lost a dear friends 10•12•15.... To suicide he was a good person. It was very hard to recover from. You're hurting yourself and others around you. There's always a way out of this. Suicide isn't the answer.
I've definitely thought about suicide a few times but I've never gone through with it (obviously) I always think about how it would affect the people around me. I agree with @LittleGoose it is, in a way, selfish to commit suicide as you're only thinking about how to end your own problems. Committing suicide ends your problems, but it forms problems for other people in your life. Bottom line is, don't do it.
Suicide to suicidal people, sadly sounds like the only solution to their problem. Even though in the end they were tons of other solutions other than taking your own life. It may be a solution to the person, the the long run it causes so many problems. Many kids(and hell even some very immature adults) don't realize that bullying or whatever maybe one problem. However the bullying problem will then lead to another problem, then to another, then on to the next until sadly the next problem is suicide. Which will cause even more problems. People don't realize that the problem they are giving when bullying may lead to many more problems in the end. Sadly enough it is something that will never end will unfortunately even grow unless if we actually stop triggering these people to commit it. It is so sad that many people don't realize that they are many people who care and love them. That they are more ways then taking your own life. We have people who care even if they don't show it. Life is like being in one big inescapable maze. We don't see things, we don't see the emotions people have for us. We don't see the many ways out. Hell we don't even see a way out. You end up getting lost and lost until you end up having it and sadly taking your own life instead of searching in maze for that solution because in every maze there is a way out. You just need to find the way out. Just like how you will need to keep on running into dead ends. Just turning and retracing until you find your solution "out of the maze". If you think that there is no way out. There is, just like in every maze. You just have to find it. Once you find it, suicide won't even be on your mind. Bottom line is: don't commit suicide. There is that one or more solution(s). There is those people who care.
