So I wanted to make a thread about bullying because recently all of my bullying memories are randomly coming out and I just wanna let me feelings out so please dont dis me. Also some of the stuff included is offensive so. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED Spoiler: My bullying shit <So I was in year 2 eating my lunch and then a dickhead purposely kicks a football at my face then starts calling me names and he threw my lunch away, loads of people witnessed it and he was in big trouble but the things he said hurt more than the football. He called me names for being ginger & having different coloured eyes. It made me feel sad for being ginger and me wanting to cut of my hair. Now since this was in year 2 I didnt really understand what bullying was but it still hurt me. It was in about... 2010 and I moved house so that means a new school. I was quite happy with moving schools I was just worried about making friends, as i was heading for class I accidentally bumped into someone making them drop a pen, for that they called me a ginger prick and a demon. Luckily for me they left the following week so I was okay. Again in year 3 I was bullied by the 'popular' people. They called me ginger head, ginger prick. ginger brat and even fat *rhyme unintentional* even though the main bully was bigger than me. Year 5. A new girl was transferred to our class and I had to sit next to them. She seemed nice but she was actually the devil itself in my option she took my pencils snapped them all pushed me off my chair and called me names again. This time the worst. She said that i dont belong here and that im a mistake and all gingers are evil. I felt like punching her. But I felt feeble and I couldnt :( she got switched classes and adter that it stopped. Year 7 I was nervous for secondary school but I had some close friends. UNTIL the bully from last time came along. I had no idea that she was coming to my secondary school. I thought the next 5 years of my life will be torture (will coz im still in secondary school). I was waiting outside art and I got a text so I answered it. Then the bully purposely bumped into me and made me drop my phone. Thankfully it is indestructible so. But it had a crack going across the screen. At this time I thought it was an accident until I heard her say it wasnt. At break I was wandering around then she came alone this time and called me names blah blah blah. This time I knew it was bullying I told our headteacher and they sorted it out INSTANTLY she was in referral and it stopped. So if you're being bullied please tell someone trust me it does get sorted, but it wont if you dont tell anyone. I have never talked to anyone about my bullying like this. I never knew it would feel so good to let me feelings out <3
I'm sorry for what you've gone through, as I have gone through the same. You won't be dissed for telling your story; it's good that you had the courage to tell everyone. I couldn't do that myself. I wish you luck and will be praying for you, Alice. Don't let anyone drag you down. You were put on this Earth for a reason; even if you don't see it now.
YEYEYYEYEEYY! Not many people at my school have experienced bullying its good to know im not alone <3
Wow. To be honest, all those peoples are jerks. In my honest opinion, being ginger and having two different coloured eyes is REALLY COOL and makes you very unique in a good way. I'm also really really sorry for everything you've been through, if you ever want to talk about it just PM me or add me on skype. Don't let anyone's harsh actions stop you from being an amazing person, and I know that in the end everything will be okay. Those bullies will be put in their place eventually and you will have learned to be a better person because of them. I've been through problems like this but not as bad, and I can say that without the people who have done wrong against me I wouldn't have the confidence I have today. You are loved and important, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Everyone, believe it or not, is an asshole. We all are. You just really have to deal with it. Most people say that uniqueness is wrong, being an oddity is wrong, but that's bullshit. Anyone could get bullied, and there's really nothing to do, sadly. I got bullied by my whole school, just because of one kid. Yeah, it was 3rd grade. Fuck him. So, I moved away and found my best friends. Not saying you should move away, just don't let it all get to you, okay. I get called ugly, fat, stupid, and a slut on a daily basis. I am decent in the face, a bit fluffy, smartest kid in the class with @_ItsHappy , and I'm asexual, so I just laugh it all off and think about how dumb they are. I have a kid in my grade that claims she's bullied, but is just messed with and crazy, but that'd be bullying to say that, wouldn't it?
I just want to say thank you to all the amazing support I am getting, I never thought I would get this much!
To the bullies of Alice (If you're seeing this): Go get a life, we all have defects. You hurt Alice's feelings and that isn't cool. So good job if YOU are having a hard time because you got your karma. I'n out.
We've all had issues before. People will somehow dislike or want to mock a part of you for whatever reason. But that bit is you, not them. It's like the saying that goes "everyone you meet has a story to tell, so don't judge" I'm sorry to hear what happened. You'll progress though it providing you hold your head high and don't let one person bring you down. At the end of the day, they're wasting their own time. Story time loooool I've been bullied before, in primary school I had a similar issue, someone consistently mocking me and throwing things at me. One of which was throwing a tennis ball at my face, hit my eye and nose. He then walked off and laughed. Years later an issue happened in about year 8, fed trough the next few years being mocked for things. Music did briefly help, people did like the music I did, but I couldn't wait to leave. Upon leaving at the end of year 11, all ended up fine, and haven't had issues since. I happened to meet @KateVampire that Christmas and everything became so much better. C:
Well I used to be bullie myself and harassing people for being unsure and its bad I know, so if you need to talk with anyone about it ask me from i started school ive been bullied
Most bullies are just jealous or insecure, that's why they mock other people, to prove that they are "big" and powerful.. i'm sorry for what happened and I hope the situation becomes better
I If you only worry about the past, then you can never look forward to the future. There's a light at the end of the tunnel.
OMG FINALLY SOMEONE AGREES I did homeschooling last year and I hated it so much it was probably one of the worst years ever. I'm so glad to be back in high school with all my friends now
