I'm being bullied.

*Update* This has been solved. Thanks for everyone's help. Closing. /c

 

First thing I recommend, tell an adult or a trusty peer. They can help you out, I've never been bullied, but that is what I suggest.
Second thing, ask for a few breaks. Try to ease out your stress and clear out your mind.
Try to ignore it as best as you can, it's the only thing that helps tremendously.

 

tbh you should just be the bigger person, show to them that the words they say dont affect you and they'll soon get tired of bulling you.

It's horrible what people do but the best thing to do in my opinion is to ignore them.

 

From personal experience, I know that the only way to get these things away is ignore all the haters and focus on more important things like school, and more important things like the few who respect you there, and the friends you have here, (if that means anything.)
Gay is not an insult, so if I were you I would feel free to say that. But, I think that's just me because I like to defend myself and others at times. If people take things too far, physical bullying, things that hurt you bad, take it to the counselor or principal. Do not say anything that could get you in trouble, if you have to, simply say "ok." or ignore them completely and take it to someone who can help you asap. I know that people like counselors and principals don't seem like someone you can tell or people who are approachable, but if you be completely honest, and if you've made mistakes and admit them, and if you explain in detail how you're feeling, they can really help.
Anyways, you have me and many others here who are here for you and are here to help you. Don't be afraid to ask myself or the friends you have to distract you or give you some advice.. c:

 

Jordan, I've dealt with this before so I think I can help.
Firstly, I tried to ignore people who said bad about me. But the comments were just too hard and I couldn't handle it. I then told my friends. They supported me and stuck up for me. I then told my school dean/principal. He spoke with the parents and they stopped.

So basically, tell someone who will support you, who will be there for you. Don't let anyone get you down because honestly, if they don't have anything better in life to do but gossip about people, they are low-lifed jerks. Please Jordan, I don't want to see you pain. Tell someone how you feel. Talk with your guidance counselor. Or stand up to them.
I wish you the best of luck Jordan. I hope this gets sorted out soon.

 

I see it's hard for you. Dosn't matter if you are getting a girlfriend or a boyfriend What really should be in your interests right now is your studies. Just ignore them. Also try to remember this do not be afraid to ask for some help. If you don't ask, you won't get. Have someone at your side at all times no matter what.

This may be a short one this time but remember

• Do not be afraid to ask for some help
• Studies are important
• Stick by your friends
• Stand up to the bullies
• Forgive the bullies

That's all I can think of. I know how hard it is for you.

Good luck.

 

Wow! I'm so sorry that you are being bullied at your new school Jordan.
I used to get bullied a lot! It was 1st-5th grade. When I reached middle school it got better, but I still was bullied. The thing that I did was I just ignored them. I know ignoring it seems like it won't work, but it does. I got bullied for all kinds of things and it sucked and there were so many people that tried to bring me down, but I didn't let them.

Your situation is obviously different than mine, but I can at least say that it will get better.
When I reached 10th grade, I was surprised on how everyone was accepting of others. There was hardly any form of bullying visible. Yes, in high school you can still be messed with, but it's less of a possibility. I think the reason why bullying is less seen in high school is because people are more mature, they care about their grades, and they simply don't have time to be childish and rude. It also mainly depends on who you hang out with. With you just moving and going to a new school, it can be hard to make friends, but I would just try to stay away from the people that mess with you. They are only messing with you because they feel insecure about themselves and you are obviously an easy target taking into account that you are new to the school.

My best idea for you is to ignore them and not give them the attention that they want. You see, when you get bullied by people, when you react and cry or get upset, the bullies want that. They want you to show that it bothers you when they mess with you. If you didn't they wouldn't bully you. So, if you ignore them for long enough, I think that they will leave you alone because all they want is to feel better about themselves and to them picking on you gives them that "twisted" satisfaction that they need. Also, people are just assholes in general and I wouldn't let a bunch of kids get to you. Pretend your school is like the forums. Stay away from the rude and childish people and just be yourself. I hope that it gets better for you and that you have a good school year.

 

I actually had this same exact problem in elementary school.
My voice was very high pitched and no one really made fun of me until one day in 5th grade this kid made a move.
I was playing on the playground minding my own business and he started making fun of me and my voice and he started calling me a girl.
I got so mad so when it was time to go inside for the rest of school I glared at him and then I threw my lunchbox at him.
We both got in trouble but I didn't really care.
He was rude to me and I thought he deserved what he had gotten.
Needless to say he never called me a girl ever again.

Then in middle school all of my friends were girls and one day the people I was sitting with at lunch asked if I was gay because I would never hang out with guys.
I got really upset and I never talked to them ever again.
But now I realize that even if I was gay it wouldn't matter and they shouldn't be judging me or anyone for it.

I'm not telling you to resort to violence or anything of that sort.
But now this kid doesn't talk to me, so I'm saying if you stand up for yourself the problem will go away hopefully.
You also need to know that the people who are doing this are dumb and their opinions don't really matter because they're gonna be irrelevant in 10 years.
And when you go to your high school reunion and you see them and you're successful and they're living on the street you'll be glad you didn't listen to them and you'll realize that they're opinion doesn't matter because as long as you are true to yourself and you are happy with the way you are nothing else matters.
And you can tell them to go fuck themselves with a cactus.

Hope you feel better and the bullies stop.

 

tell them who's boss

 

I am bullied at school for the same reasons. I am not sure if someone has already said this but the reason they are bullying you is because they want a reaction from you. So if the bullies try to make fun of you walk away if they follow you go near a teacher. The bullies will most likely stop.

 

So sorry to hear about how your peers are bullying you and the pain they are causing. I strongly recommend going to a school counselor, or talking to a trusted adult or friend to get some advice on how to handel the situation. If you don't feel comftorable talking to someone you know then you should call the kids helpline at '1800 55 1800' where you can talk to professionals anonymously and confidentially via. phone, email or web available 24 hours a day. Hope this helps.

 

I never get bullied in school.

But if I ever get bullied in school, I turn it into a joke or something positive. They end up laughing WITH me

 

Don't put yourself down. Who cares what they think. I have been in your shoes too and I know exactly how you feel. One suggestion is to tell your counselor, assistant principal, teacher, or parents. They will know how to fix it. However if they call you a f*ggot or g*ay again. Just tell, don't listen. Don't do anything, just walk away and tell an adult. Don't let it get to you.

 

I settled mine fighting
our bullying Is different. Your guyses???? schools probably dont have fake wannabe thug gansters. Never dealt with that kinda bullying. Just show em whos top doge. Or dog.

but ayyyy
if they say why u always witth girls. Say cause I get it ;)

 

I've been there before. I'm from a military family - I move every four years. I've been the new kid my entire life.

First thing to do is find the correct person to help you. They should meet this criteria: a trusted adult connected to the school, like a principal, vice principal, counselor, etc.

Avoid situations you can't control, especially without witnesses. I'm not saying avoid the bathroom, but that can be the last place you want to go. No cameras, no security, and no matter what happens you lose. They steal something, you can't prove they did it. You successfully defend yourself from something physical, they convince authorities its your fault.

Limit exposure, particularly from those who have been bullying you already. Lie low for as long as you can. Join whatever you want, but don't put on a big show in class or the halls.

Whatsoever you do: NEVER give any information they can use to hurt you. Have an embarrassing story? Keep it to yourself. I don't know if the area you live in is good or bad, but don't give an address to your house; they may egg your house or graffiti it.

I hope this helps, a lot of us have been there and it's definitely serious.

 

This is what we do in the hood, you fucking punch the bitch in the face.
Then teach everyone a lesson.
then you obnoxously use your high pitched voice roasting all of them.
or you can go to an adult.

 

The "Hood"? Don't you mean the "Childhood"?
OHOHOHOHOHOOHOHO.

No. lol

 

I'm so sorry for this. I hate it when people treat others differently cause they are different. But we're ALL humans. We're the same inside, but the outside of us makes us special.

Try and talk to someone that is quite lonely or doesn't have much friends and isn't that mean and friendly. And don't judge by his/her look. Talk to him/her and get to know each other. Get a friend that can support you if the bullying keeps going. And if the bullying keeps going or you can't find anyone, talk to a teacher, your parent, the principal or anyone you trust about this.

"Hey dude. I heard you crying. And sighing, but listen to our thoughts. You're going to get through this together. Hopefully this will become better, just don't cry. Or the others will look you in the eye. What kind of person thinks you are gay. Ignore that and stay, cause they ain't your thoughts. Hope this helps a looooot."

Just made a little song to help c:

 

advice from Glozell green

what u do is u graduate and u do better them them do what u love and u might get famous for it! so what im saying is be on the top of ur game!

my advice

ignore them! there just jealous of u cuz u so flawless if some1 calls u gay shake it of and tell them excuse me gay ppl are the most fabulasss ppl on earth so ya create a reason! if ur own gender is bulling u tell them that I know ur obsessed with my but im not gay so if u could back off that would be g8. Tell ur parents to make a call with the police cuz bulling is illegal in most states in america

 

Ive never been bullied, It will soon probably...
Because Im that kid..

But if I was id just ignore them, dont let them get in your head.
I would also just make some stupid pun and walk away, that cause more bullying but thats what Id do, People bully for one reason, They know your better than them!