this needed to be said okay

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by Emma, Nov 9, 2015.

  1. Emma

    Emma >:) Ex MΟD Donator

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    hi hi
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  2. Katerina

    Katerina Former Mοd Donator

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    If you really need help then go to a therapist or a phychologist. Complaining about your problems on the internet is not the best idea
     
  3. Joel

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    Thank you for existing hun
     
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    Pugnata Pug the Pug Donator

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    Thanks for making this thread. I've seen so many negative threads that it almost makes me sad.
     
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    Sorry @Pugnata but I kind of have to tell people . I'm gonna say something that I have not told many people . Not even my parents. I suffered from severe depression for 3 years. I have tried to kill myself many times and I used to self-harm. I was pretty shit .

    I still have some bad feelings but I have recently got better because I had the people around to help . @xsamathaz being one of them . Emma is right , thing do get better ;).

    Also , if anyone has an issue , come to me as well I am more than happy to help :). I am also willing to just help people that are just feeling down or just looking for a chat.

    Skype : felxprodedm ( I don't normally give out my skype , but I feel that this is an important time )
     
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  6. Pugnata

    Pugnata Pug the Pug Donator

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    No need to apologize, everyone may say what they want ^^
     
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    Kaiiven Donator

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    I just don't want people to begin to feel upset . That's all :)
     
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    goreesha kbye

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    Thank you for doing this.

    This is very important for people going through things like depression, anxiety, and therapists make some people nervous. Being able to talk to someone helpful and trustworthy is absolutely necessary at a place like this.
     
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    Thankyou Emma, also there are things called RPs ( roleplays ) where people act -which I am fine with- but lots of people are suiciding and mocking the fact that some people have depression, which I do NOT enjoy. This server is supposed to be a happy place where people can play games and have fun and forget about problems in their own life, then they come on and see people mocking them. Overall, I think people should open up about their feelings without being mocked by people in RP's.
     
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    witchchick128 Amity Blight Donator

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    Agreed but at the same time you can ask a friend / relative to comfort you, a therapist or psychologist tells u all deh bad stuff :(
     
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    Emma, I am not even sure if you are a friend anymore, however I understand what you are going through. I was diagnosed with Depression in 5th grade and it was severe. It has gotten worse over the past year. It has lead me to self harm, and has put me in a hospital a couple of times. Most people don't understand the word depression or the meaning of it, so for an automatic response they will tell you that it will get better and all will be okay. No, it isnt like that. It really isnt. And at those moments you may feel like you are the only person in the world, and you will get sad over nothing. No, you arent alone. As you have me and many other people WHO ACTUALLY know what is going on. And it is hell. Honestly, it really is the worst feeling. I come on the internet to escape the depression from family, friends school etc. But no matter where I go it always seems to follow me. It is a raincloud you just can't get away from. If you ever need to talk to anyone about it I am here. I actually do know what is happening.

    For help I do suggest seeing someone and telling them how you feel, because you mean so much too me Emma and you have any bad thoughts about doing any actions you should tell friends, and YOUR parents first. Even though it may be scary too tell your friends/parents it is something that has too be done. Or else your thoughts can take the better of you. Talking to someone may also help your trust. When I first started I was afraid that my doctor would judge me. Everything you tell them remains confidential. It is helping me tremendously. It is a really good thing too do also because it will get weights off your shoulders which is maybe one of the best things to do because all of those thoughts can give you anxiety which can lead to other thing.

    Honestly, if you want anymore information just PM me.
     
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    Thank you for making this, because gosh darnnit I nearly cried after reading everything. ♡♡
     
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