So upset.... Finally met someone in real life who I really liked and got feelings for.... He tells me today that he is moving to North Carolina with his family. I feel sick and so upset. I don't know what to do.
I am so sorry Hum. I personally don't like long distance relationships, but if you are okay with that type of relationship, then you really have nothing to lose by asking them out long distance. If you need someone to talk to, I am always here for you.
Such a sad story...:/ Here's my advice. I had to move away from my crush when I was in kindergarten, and well...yeah. Eventually you get over it, it's in the past. Losing someone you care about isn't necessarily something you can just move on from. It takes time to heal the wound that's been scarred in your heart. Here's what I think you should do. If you have his number, or still can make contact with him, ask him what his Skype is or if you can FaceTime him. Really anything that would keep you guys talking to each other. Here's another thing. If you feel like you'll stuck on him for a long time, say a couple of months, then you need to move on. There are plenty of other people that you'll meet you'll have a crush on in the future. For now, just focus on the good things in life and see if you can still make contact with him.
Long distance sucks, I know. If you can't really meet up or talk frequently, your best bet is to just move on. It's hard at first but once you're done with him it's all good.
There's nothing wrong with long distance relationships, if the person is worth it you'll work extra hard to stay with eachother And thats how youll know if its the one for you
I've been in a long distance relationship for 6 months. I'll just say it isn't easy. I would suggest talking it over with him and what you want to do. If you do want to continue the relationship through the distance, there's a lot of things that will happen. Try to find a way that will fit your schedules and timeszones so you can talk to him as regularily as possible (like a routine...talk everyday at the same time. That's what I did and it worked out fine in terms of talking)... and try to do video calls/voice calls as often as possible to maintain that feeling of close connection. For some people LDR (long distance relationships) can be really hard on them and sometimes even though it may seem to work out the other person may just break under the pressure to stay in contact all the time in their busy lives. Since I've been in an LDR with someone I knew in real life I know how hard it can be, but if you survive it's worth it.
Tsk tsk. There are more fish in the sea. With your personality you'll be reeling em in like all the new staff J&H are acceptin (no h8 m8)
It's alright man. It's tough times. I haven't experienced anything like you went through, but something similar. Just it's a tough time, you'll get through it.
I feel it. :( Me and my friend Hope are so crazy together. I kinda like her but she doesn't want Relationships because she doesn't want to break anyone's heart.
I am so sorry to hear that. I feel for you. You are always welcome to PM me here or on the server. I Pray For You!
Long distance relations can be very hard and trying at times, not being able to be close to the ones you love but it is a personal decision between you and your partner with what you guys decide to do. I wish you the best and know you will be fine either way and life will carry on. x
