Bullies

*Huff*

Chaos.. By the start of something chaotic, it'll never stop until someone contains it.
As we all know, (Or some of us)
Bullying is done by someone to feel empower, or to boost self-esteem but also used to make other individuals feel how the bully feels in his/her own life.
Let's think of it this way.
A bully makes fun of you because of your physical appearance, then change your physical appearance.
If you don't want to change it, then know your bully first.
Before fighting back, you must ask a question.
Is he/she bullying me for his/her desires or just to make feel the same as she is?
Because it's better to know your enemy before you strike than striking your enemy before knowing it, you might make peace and change the bully to be your new friend.
You might be no better than the bully itself if you fight back even harder if the bully is just doing it because he/she is depressed and lonely.
It's like a flame war, don't respond a flame. Just talk to him/her personally, so things can be worked out.
If it doesn't work,
Ignore it.
But if you can't ignore it, I guess the next best thing to do is fight back but it's your own choice because fighting back is just making the situation worse or in a small rate that he/she would avoid but it depends on how you fight back.

It's better to have peace with the enemy besides war, you'll never know that you're no better than the enemy if you want move on with your life.

 

My opinion. I'll keep it short.

Bullies are those people who dehumanize others, but they are still human. Respect that and the fact that cause and effect of life experience have warped their minds such that they can't see the moral wrong in bullying. If you know that, then you can put up with their very existence and ignore them. Give them their own time to self-realize. Yes, you can shrug people off, believe it or not. It does take courage to push away people that prey on your insecurities, but damn you have to bring yourself to do it. Don't cut.

 

It's funny, you talk about people everyday, i know because i used to be good friends with you

 

Personally ik its harder for girls so idrk what to say. Ive earned my respect from fighting so I dont know what bullying feels like. Only once. Ofc you have sneak dissers. Etc people talkin crap but i dont mind.

 

first off ,, I don't . second ,, who are you .

 

I agree.
With all due respect Jenna, you are constantly extremely rude and it seems a little hypocritical that you are making this thread. It's kind of you to, but you can be extremely rude and I just don't think people will take this advice if they look at you as a hypocrite.
Again I don't mean to offend you, but this is just my opinion.

 

(please dont get offended thanks)
ive been bullied MANY times
i completely understand what youre going through
but let me say, just telling people they're perfect isnt gonna help them
its their responsibility to appreciate themselves
whenever someone told me i was pretty, i didnt believe them and i thought they were just taking pity on me
so sometimes compliments can make things worse.
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In an argument that I was a part of, I was a bystander not really commenting on anything. And you deliberately attacked me, when I didn't really say anything to you. I'm not meaning to attack you in any way in this comment, but it's kind of ironic how you post this when we had that argument about a week ago... If you think we're all perfect then why did you call me fat when I didn't even say anything to you. And I'm going to take this moment to say I'm sorry about everything that went down and I really took offense to everything that went down. Thank you.

 

this was never meant to be a thread where you put down my mistakes ,, i said sorry ,, idk why you guys are saying it like I just did it . this is a thread where I try and tell people that they're worth it ,, but you guys have to comment things about ME . this makes people think "she's a bad person I'm not going to agree with her" ,, I want them to know that they're worth it ,, and I want them to agree with me instead of hate me for the things I did in the past .

 

Let's just forget and stop bringing up the negative things Jenna had done in the past. Right now she needs our support and we aren't giving her any. She has already apologized so let's forgive her.

 

I understand what you're saying.
I apologize for taking the wrong view, and like I said, it is very kind of you to make this thread.
I also accept your apology.

 

lol

 

thank you safa

thank you apse

 

Okay guys enough with the fights.

HUMANS MAKE MISTAKES, come on guys we all at least been rude once. I always call people names out of anger because it's a fast motion thing and you can't control it

So let's stop getting bad at Jenna and thank her for making the thread as she's trying to help all of you

 

Hey, no problem. I hope things are a lot better now.

 

Good thread!
Bullies are just jokes for the world.
What I mean by that is,
I think I almost died because of the bullies in my class. But srsly.
I was in hospital because something strange was going on in my body.
So I was a full night there and next day, I did not have the problems...
My mother told me, I would have to move to another school...
And now I did and I'm happy again. I never had the problems again :D
But again,
Bullies hurt people for fun. They wanna see them crying or saying "please stop", but punch again. Or put an paper with "punch me" on it and every one punches you... only because of the paper.
Every thing I wrote in this message happened to me...

 

For me i get bullied because im a bit fat and young, and some assholes call me "Irish Scrub"

 

Thank you so much for this.

 

If someone puts you down it's because you're higher than them.

 

First off; I'm not going to let anyone insult my friends. Sara did not deserve to be treated like that. Just because you are jealous that she actually has friends doesn't mean you can low blow her. Not only to mention that you are seeking every available corner to get attention. I think you should stop putting up the act, because I see right threw you. You have no friends, you are selfish, conceded, and certainly way to stupid to realize that you actually are hurting people for no reason. I think that you have some serious issues to be sitting there calling anyone fat when you are.
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