ok so dont get mad

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by sebastiann, Aug 3, 2015.

  1. TwageTomato

    TwageTomato Former Mod Donator

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    That took some courage to say. Dang.

    Eli, you are a great staff member and this community is lucky to have you around. You've contributed a lot since you became a member of the staff years ago, and I hope you continue to do good work as always.

    While I choose not to voice my opinions on this whole matter, know that I still support you as a person. People, whatever gender they may be, are intrinsically valuable beings to be respected and cared for.

    I hope whatever medical procedures you go through go well and that you recover from them. (I'm just that one guy who still has no idea how this transition happens, so yeah.)
     
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  2. TheBlackHamood

    TheBlackHamood Feel Pain, Accept Pain, Know Pain

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    Even though I do not understand these kind of seuxal/gender things, I feel like saying this

    Being uncomfortable about something is not a blessing but it's a curse, letting it out is hard for some people who are afraid, but you proved you are not type of people, you took a step into the next door, Eli.


    Well with that being said, congragulations
     
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  3. Abcdhax

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    Eli you had courage to say this don't feel sad be yourself don't cheese yourself that's all that matters
     
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  4. kawaiitoast

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    I completley agree.
    Also, the title doesn't make sense. Why would anyone be mad?
     
  5. sebastiann

    sebastiann Donator

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    I felt like I was lying to everyone that's why I feel like others would be mad.

    also, there's a difference between sex/gender.
    sex, what you have; what you were born as.
    gender, what you identify as. there's more than 2 genders. fun fact
    gender expression, how you choose to express yourself in any way.
     
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  6. kawaiitoast

    kawaiitoast inactive but not gone forever

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    Well don't feel bad about it, you're a good mod and if anyone got mad at you I wouldn't understand it.

    And yeah I know the difference between all that. I have a few friends who feel the same way as you do, and it didn't chagne my views of them at all. I was just saying I agree with what Hamood said about being yourself.
     
  7. Joseph10003

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    Eli, I personally support what you are going through. You are a really nice person and I respect you a lot. Nothing is ever going to change my opinion on you. I know that you are a good person and that your are compassionate and caring. I respect you and your courage to make this thread. Everyone should feel comfortable in their own skin. This obviously does not change what I think about you at all. I have and still will always continue to support you through any complications that you may have because I feel like you do the same for me.
     
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  8. Morcov

    Morcov Furry|♥Zoroark♥|The everything man

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    Pansexuality & asexuality is perfectly fine tbh. Being a Transgender to me is fine, and it took me a long time before I really understood the new idea of differenciating sex & gender since the last time we spoke in person, Eli. When you first told me a while back that you were biologically a girl, I thought it was a big deal, especially if the world seems to be against Transgender people. What was the most shocking was how we spoke mouth-to-mouth and even vid-called. I always thought you were a boy. It wasn't a "Dont judge a book by your cover" situation. It was a "Main character in your book sorta just got shot" situation. I don't think anyone should be angry or upset over this. And if you do get upset over Eli's decision, then wake your ignorant ass up and go look outside to see how hard life is for Transgenders.

    And Eli, for what it's worth: I'm sorry for what I said last time we talked. It was very irrational and ignorant of me, and hopefully we can talk again soon.

    -Personal Apologies, Morcov.
     
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  9. TwageTomato

    TwageTomato Former Mod Donator

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    Ya learn something new every day. Thanks for clearing that up Eli.
     
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  10. sebastiann

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    No problem.
    Apology accepted :) thank you
     
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  11. ZakMuir

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    You know we are all for here for you, no mater if your transgender or not. I know how hard it can be to come out to people, but most people accept you. I think of you highly

    As for any hate - If anyone did post it, they'd end up with not many friends.
     
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  12. Aiden

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    This is very courageous of you to say. Anyone sharing something very important about who they are, I find that a really brave thing to do. Thank you for telling us this, it helps a lot, especially to the people from the LGBT+ community. I highly respect you and will fully support you until the end. Forget those who dislike you for being you, you're being who you want to be, and that's all that matters.

    Congratulations, Eli! If you need someone to talk to, I'm here and I will listen. (despite the fact that I am an awkward person lol) ^_^
    Stay rad, yø.

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    Fuck what everyone thinks be yourself bruv
     
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    If I had a superpower, it'd be to be able to phase into this computer, find you, and give you a big hug :D

    Seriously, though, Eli, I really don't care what you are, just who you are. Even if you don't see me as a friend, I do.
     
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  15. TheBlackHamood

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    Adding up to what I said, in some cases I do not care if you are one of these gender or sexual stuff, however I see fit I will call you that, but if you request not I might think about it
     
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    You'll always be the same MudKipper85 to me buddy. <3
     
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    Eli, you're still a amazing mod, i don't care what you are, as long you are Eli!
     
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    Well done Eli (Ellie lol) this doesn't change anything, don't see how it would. You're still the same person no matter what you identify as. Good luck for the future :)

    P.S. don't kill me if I sometimes forget to say "they/them" it's difficult to keep up lol
     
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    You have support, Eli. Good luck with the future. :)
     
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  20. Xad

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    I will support you as well. Just be yourself, you're probably the smartest and nicest person I know.
     
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