ok so dont get mad

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by sebastiann, Aug 3, 2015.

  1. sebastiann

    sebastiann Donator

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    Okay, before I even start. If you think I am doing this for attention, feel free to click away from this thread.
    I've been wanting to say this for a long time, and it's very hard for me to say. I'm so uncomfortable with myself and so very insecure about every little thing I do.
    So, you know how I seem or present myself as biologically male well I'm not. I'm biologically a female. (sex)
    My gender is male (im transgender). Mostly agender. I'm not sure. My sexuality is gay. (Which means I'm not attracted to someone based off of their gender/sex. Gender expression would be androgynous. I can present myself any way, both masculine and feminine. A mixture of both.
    Any hate comments/gifs/pictures WILL be deleted. It took a lot of courage for me to say this.
    The feeling of not being accepted by others is terrible, and I indeed have felt that from this community.
    Also, I don't plan on telling my birth name because I don't feel comfortable with it. It isn't me. I am going to change my name.
    And, today I got my first binder and I'm currently progressing so that's good.
    Thank you if you do support me.
    also, please please don't continually bug me me about it. (please)
     
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  2. RealTDITyler

    RealTDITyler Will you love me after all the mistakes I've made?

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    It doesn't matter. We love you for who you are. :)
     
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    Chase_16757 [Donator]

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    I support you :)
     
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  4. X__Ninja__X

    X__Ninja__X yeep Donator

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    Just be who you are.Thats who we appreciate
     
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  5. RealTDITyler

    RealTDITyler Will you love me after all the mistakes I've made?

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    If anyone doesn't support you or thet be mean let me know and I'll give 'em a piece of my mind.

    But if you need someone to talk to just let me know.
     
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  6. tothemoon

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    I will always support you.:)
     
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  7. YFIOTR

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    This had absolutely no effect on how I think of you. You're still the same Eli :)
     
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  8. jessie

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    You're still bae af and we still got the interrupters to fight. heart heart heart winky
    so proud of you little guy i heart you <33333
     
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  9. Vexa_Soul

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    To even say we support you is an understatement. I know I still support you all the way.

    Gerard way is still bae c:
     
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  10. MrDavyJones

    MrDavyJones ~Stroke his Beard~

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    It's got no affect on me, you're still always gonna be my friend. You weren't fake to the server at all, so I think all in all no one should be mad at you or disappointed in you. You'll still always be the same Eli we've always known. It takes guts to express yourself to that though and I give you respect for that.
     
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  11. ItsPacers

    ItsPacers Well-Known-Member Donator

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    That took a lot of courage Eli. I am here to support you. Always will be.
     
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  12. _Magical

    _Magical Pokémon trainer

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    Tbh it'd be insane for anyone to disrespect you due to that fact, even if someone has a religion that might be against it. There's nothing wrong with you.
    Seriously, eff haters.
    You should be given that same amount of freedom of expression as everyone else without even feeling worried.
    Luv u Eli <3
     
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  13. ObviouslyJenna

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    I'm always here for you Eli, forever and always. I support you no matter what. <3
     
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    It took a lot of courage to say this Eli, and anyone reading this thread can realize that.
    You're still the same Eli that you've always been to me and you will forever have my support on anything you do.
     
  15. LaColeman

    LaColeman Leaving (INAL)

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    Having a different gender does not contradict who you are in anyway. If your born a Male, Female, or even an Agender, then that's ok. You being born a biological female is not an issue. Just know that.
     
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    X__Ninja__X yeep Donator

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    I don't really understand sometimes how it feels to be different I mean I'm just a normal guy but I think it took a lot of courage for u to say that to basically half of the people u don't even know.To me that's amazing!!!!
     
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  17. Katy_

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    Congratulations Eli...
    Congratulations on the first day of being openly you.
    This must be a huge weight off of your shoulders.
    I support you in every possible way in your journey ahead :)
     
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    This took so much courage and I will support you no matter what. Everyone should be allowed to express who they are with the world. I have so much respect for you.
     
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    Abcdhax good times

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    Don't cheese be your self that's all what matters
     
  20. Pancho

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    Eli, what you just said must have taken a lot of courage. You are one of my good friends on the server and I will never stop supporting you.
     
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