So erm I just need to rant about this.

Today when walking around outside today with my friends (baring in mind we are 13 and 14) a group of idiotic boys that looked about 17 started to comment on my chest. And quote "The twins are big".

Now we simply were in complete shock. We got to my house as quickly as possible and called the police. The police are gonna try and track those guys down. I just wonder why in gods name someone would do that to clearly a young girl.

Just why would you comment on that? The only reason I can think of is that they were drunk so much that they said that but still. What gives you the right. Sorry for wasting anyone's time who read this but I needed a way to vent and this helped.

 

What an arsehole that guy is.. Boys like him make girls think that all boys are perverts when in reality we arent...

 

The world if full of people with no class.

 

Ummmm... okay?

 

Harsh, but the police wasn't that necessary. Just shrug it off, it'll make it better.

 

I don't want to sound rude, but I think you might have overreacted just a teeny bit. Although he could have reworded what he said, it's nonetheless still a compliment. Instead of you getting insulted, a high schooler essentially complimented you on something several girls are insecure about. I know we all perceive things differently, but calling the cops on a horny teenager was, in my opinion, probably #1 on the list of things to not do in that situation unless he touched you or sexually harassed you more. But, of course, I understand where your anger comes from, and I'm sorry older guys rudely and inappropriately commented on your physical attributes out of nowhere. People like that obviously haven't learned proper manners, and likely don't get any wanted attention by doing that. Once again, sorry if I was a bit rude, as it was not my intention

 

Lila is totally right. What the boys did may have been rude and wrong on many levels, but it's not even a crime.

 

Lol welcome to life

 

Heh, this is the sort of shit I say to the girls at my school.

It's amazing how many times a guy can get punched, and still not get the point that what he's doing is wrong.


Jesus, my arm hurts...

 

Hey, despite everyone else says, and considering your age, I think it's okay that you called the cops. It's fine, don't worry. You felt that way, and they won't mind it. That's what the police do.

At least you got a group with you. I have experienced some men comment on me like that when I'm clearly unremarkable and alone.

Stay paranoid safe on the street.

I am also quite shocked at this:

What Detranica experienced was a mild form of a catcall. Catcalling is street harassment and even a mild form of harassment does not go well in my morals. You're a girl, and why don't you know that comments like that are very insulting? While I can understand that maybe you may have not experienced it done to you, but think about some stranger ogling you and loudly commenting on your bust or butt. Women feel unsafe on the street when men eye them as objects.

 

I understand people get insulted, but I also do understand catcalling is normal and can be found anywhere. I personally have not experienced it, but living in an urban area I have seen it happen to other girls/women (even friends) who did not feel objectified, brushed it off, and even took it as a compliment. Most girls I know actually dress in a certain way just to get that type of attention.
I just do not find something as normal and minor as that as "not being safe" unless they touch you or go to an extreme level of sexual harassment. I guess we all have different takes on it, and I have the unpopular perception.

 

Oh well, we do have conflicting thoughts about it, since my way of life is different from yours. I tend to acknowledge and eliminate threats before they progress to extreme levels. You seem to go with the flow. I know we have dissimilar thoughts about this, and I understand. I just had to point out that you came off as a bit out of place with that comment, especially that you're female.

 

Ehh, calling the police was really unnecessary in my opinion, but I'm glad you got it kind of sorted out.
Sometimes guys say those kinds of things and expect compliments back, or they're just trying to be flirty.

 

Yea I think it was necessary to call the police if some 17-18 years old fags were looking at you and wanted to do stuff to you (I guess)

 

Tru xD

 

The thing is this is the first thing like this that has ever happened to me and I got so annoyed and scared (mostly cause of all these stories on the news saying about what has happened to some young teenage girls around where I live, just look up the Rochdale sex trafficking gang ). Also I am very self conscious about my chest and I was with a friend that is kinda jealous so that doesn't make her feel good either. I also don't expect these guys to get in trouble with the police it just is mostly to make myself feel safer and warn them more than anything. I just feel upset mostly because i'm 13 I don't want compliments on my breasts its scary for me.