I'm sorry

Hi everyone Pacers here. I am making an apology thread to say sorry to the people I was rude too.
@Sellz sorry I was rude to you
@Destination666 in sorry I was a horrible friend and I wish we could be friends again.

I am just saying sorry for all the people I have been rude too. I hope that you all forgive me.

~Pacers

 

Pacers, I did respect you for quite a while, but there were some... let's say times on the hub server where you were a bit too pushy and demeaning, and that is perfectly normal, in fact most members that are quote on quote "popular" with 3000+ likes, tend to ignore you and act "mature" on the server, however certain things that you've said to me, I do not appreciate.

Now, I was once like you (and probably still am), I have a long list of rules broken on this server that I can't remember the beginning of the chain. I tried changing, but sometimes bad actions can be permanent (I think mine was), so I salute you on changing, but it is easier said than done, your reputation is like a rag, it's easy to stain and ruin it, but it's hard to clean it. Now before you get to be like me to where you don't have a chance of "redeeming" yourself, you should try now, and don't just say you will, but actually do the action.

I'll give you a clean sheet of paper on my side for you to fill out. If you can manage to change, I can respect that. Take it easy man.

 

All it takes is consideration of other's feelings, and you'll be good

 

You have to learn from your mistakes instead of just apologizing (Parent quotes 101).

 

I'm not exactly sure what you did, but it seems like there's a lot of change to be made. I suggest you show people that you're sorry, rather than just saying it. Good luck!

 

Okay, I forgot to reply with the reason on here.
So Pacers. I won't accept you apology after all the things you've done to me.
I don't accept it. I am not into that mood of accepting it and you, becoming your old self again. This is like idk, the 10th time you make these kinds of threads? I'm sorry, but not accepting it.

 

Pacers, when you say sorry, just show that you are sorry, don't just say it then walk away and be ignorant.

This is the reason why people aren't accepting your apologies.

 

Lol, everybody above me pretending to be the most awesome person themselves judging someone else.

Anyway, it's good that you apology. Haven't seen any apologies lately, but I have seen some odd behaviour, so maybe others shouls follow your ways. Just do what you said in this thread and you'll be good. People who can't forgive someone are weak, in my opinion.

 

I agree with you Kris.
An apology is supposed to be owning up to your wrong actions, and proving that you'll make a change. The reason to always accept them, is because everybody's still learning, including yourself, (to all of you hesitating to accept his apology.) After all, you've all made/will make an apology to somebody in your life.

 

So aslong as we keep saying sorry we can do everything?

 

That's not the point. The point is that there's in fact a limit, but apologizing shows you care somewhat about the actions you've taken, and you're owning up to them.

 

This guy said a lot of sorry lol, I think he hit the limit.

 

Maybe he has.

 

Then I think we should leave the people he is saying sorry too decide on that.

 

Actions speak louder than words . . .

'nuff said

 

If you're sorry then show it. Stop apologizing repeatedly. I don't know what you did, but saying sorry over and over again is almost worthless. If you stop and dont do it again I'm sure they will forgive you.

 

If this is the case, it is probably going to take a while before you will be able to gain your trust back from these people. I am sorry but by reading all this:

It seems that you have crossed the line. When you say sorry, it's basically like when Christians repent for their sins. They do it to progress and become closer to Christ, not so they can repeat the offense over and over again. When you are sorry, it means that you are trying to seek forgiveness from the people you offended and learn from your mistake that you made. You can't just say your sorry, otherwise your not really sorry, your just saying your sorry. I just want you to understand that it takes more than just sorry to fix what you have done. It takes discipline and time as well. Since this isn't an offense done towards me, I have nothing to forgive.

One time, I made a pretty bad mistake which I am still very mad at myself for. I don't even know what I was thinking when I made that thread that offended all of the homosexual people on the forums. That was probably the worst mistake anybody has ever made on the forums. One thing I can't wrap around my head is how I could have do e such a thing. After all, I never meant offense, I wasn't even thinking strait. I never thought if anybody being offended over that thread. Yet, tons of people were mad at the offense. The thing about that was, when I said sorry, I meant it. I got mad at myself after making that thread, I even got mad at someone in a conversation over it, but I was truly sorry for what I did, even for getting mad at that one person in a conversation. I just want everyone to know that I do remain sorry, even after I said it.

 

I agree. Re-reading your thread, Pacers, it looks like there's no effort into this apology. Everything is short and quick, and although words and pixels on a screen mean nothing, your thread looks like "fast-food", where it is quick, cheap, and not real "food" (I've read Michael Pollan recently). Now I'm not going to beat a dead horse, I know you've gotten the message that you need to be truthful of your apology, since the members above me have done a well enough job of that. Instead, I will tell you that if you're going to apologize to us after all the sticks you've broken, at least make it sincere for pete's sake. It looks like you just pieced this together in a 5-minute dumbed down time span. I do not accept this apology since it is not sincere, but life doesn't have to be a strict rule of code, I don't have to forgive you, but I can let you start over, which I am letting you do. I'll have to warn you Pacers, if you do break my trust, it will be a long time before you'll get it back.

 

Aaaaall of you guys can judge his apology once he's shown that he's changed or hasn't changed. If he doesn't change, then sure. Go ahead. Judge all you like. But until you give him a chance to change, he'll never be able to. Your high and mighty replies of "we'll never accept you" don't help. If anything, they contribute.
Wow, I'm being rather blunt here. But who cares?
If you think that this will help change him, then you're a part of the problem. And if you're saying this because you feel he "deserves" it, especially if you aren't involved in this situation whatsoever, then your actions are just as bad as his were.
Give him a clean slate, encourage him on his apology, and give the kid a chance to change already.