Girls

Well, there's this girl I like in my class, she is 13. I have no idea what to do, my friends said they overheard her saying she has a crush on my but I don't know if that's true. Being alive for 14 years I've learned one, very special thing, take risks. While your young why not take risks, I'm deeply scared of her not liking me and my school life being ruined. What would be the best place or way to tell her I like her?

I've been thinking awhile and I already made up a script for an email or talk
Hello, well, I like you and I think it's time I admit, hopefully you don't take this the wrong way.

Have a nice day!

Well, please post your opinion, I really need it.

 

Well first ask her to go to a movie. If that goes well maybe take her to dinner. Then if that goes well ask her out. Brimg her a bouquet of roses. Good luck Millerco

 

more like call her over ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

 

Naw.

 

If you ever see her alone after school/before school, talk to her then.

Get into a mini conversation beforehand, and just see how she reacts.
If she likes you, you'll have her full attention, and she won't look like she is about to leave.

 

That's a bit much for 13-14 year olds

Just have a conversation with her, nothimg more, nothing less. You're young, so I wouldn't recommend straight off asking her. Get to know her first, and if it doesn't work out, it wasnt meant to be

 

Just privately ask her if she has a crush on you or not. Confidence is most important in situations like these.

I'd not follow Pacers' advice, as you don't even know if she likes you, and taking her to a movie is not really a good first date.

 

Listen to @KrisKrikken ....
Hes got all dem girls :D

 

I will definitely take this advice, thank you :)

 

slap that ass and give her a fiver, she'll know what you mean

 

I just choked on my Coke xD

 

Think about how it will affect you in 20years. If she says no, you will completely forget about it and get someone who's worth saying yes.

If she says yes, well, you got yourself a girlfriend pal.

 

I'm a girl, and I can say, we really don't mind someone asking us out。If you like her, go for it。She's not going to do it herself。 But that email, say more if you can。Short and sweet messages like that, some girls might say no because they might not think you're being serious。This is not how all girls are, but I am at least, and it think abut half are like that too。 Good luck!!

 

I try to not make it to obvious in fear of her hating me, I'd start out with something simple like "Hello <3" and see how she reacts, then go from there.

 

Good start。
Make sure you at least have an idea on how she dates boys or whatever。Some girls get right into it, while others like to take it nice and slow。 Don't be scared to experiment, or just ask。

 

just talk to her. If she refuses, time for the big guns *loads shotgun

 

you should and like tell her before or after school
girls always make guys take the first move

 

"loads shotgun"
hehe.

 

Well, it certainly is easier doing it online... And definitely much harder in real life... So I can't say I can be much help here.

What I will tell you though, is that if this is a girl you like in real life, which is what I assume due to the section you made this thread in and seeing that she is in your class, it is best if you don't do it VIA E-Mail or Text or whatnot. Trust me. Too many of my friends have been left heartbroken because they didn't have the courage to ask the girl out themselves. Unless you want to end up having either a short relationship and end up heartbroken, or have no chance at it anymore at all, then ask her privately in reality. It is best to "Go straight to the prize," too. Don't try to slowly go for it. That leads to the friend-zone.

Here's an example.

@KittyGoddess16 and I. Originally, I acted like I hated her (Which is bad to do with others, I just got lucky to meet someone like her who was seriously forgiving.), and I continued that way because back then, I was blind as to knowing who liked me or not, in reality or online. However, as soon as I got fed up with it, I realized something: I actually had feelings for her. I talked to some of my friends that currently have girlfriends and see what they did, and all of them who are still dating to this date, confronted the girl they liked personally and asked them out. It went great from there. As for me, I did the same thing: I went straight for the Ace of Spades. I didn't try to go from 2 to 3 to 4 to (Some more numbers and stuff later) to Queen to King then the Ace, I went straight for it. It's a game of chance really, but it's better to know how someone feels about you immediately, than to wait it out and make the emotional pain worse... Tenfold than how it would feel if you wait it out and find out she doesn't like you. It would be better to get it done and over with. However, in my case, I was able to succeed in asking her out, and we are now a couple. A happy one too.

If you knew me before, you would know I would open up to nearly NOBODY, and I would show almost no signs of interest in romance or relationships, but look at me now. I went for the gun, and I'm much happier than I used to be. (Old forum-ers from 2014 would know what I mean in terms of transitioning from dead on evil to evil, but loving.)

TL;DR

Just go for it and ask her face-to-face.
If she says no: It is better than feeling the pain of asking her after waiting for so long.
Also, it's better to do it immediately, because you don't want to be put in the Friend Zone. (Hell in Romance)
It doesn't matter if you think you will never be put in the friend zone. I've seen it happen myself. They're confident, than heartbroken.

I was 13 when I asked, so no worries. Despite me being 14 now, it was when I was 13 that I asked Kitty out, and now I'm happy and we're still a happy couple.

I wish you the best of luck.

 

Hey lol i dont know about girls and i dont really care but dont take Pacers advice and start with Hello" and be :Shy: