all i want is peace on the forums :(

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by John_0696, Dec 29, 2013.

  1. John_0696

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    Ok, as you may have heard that there has been a lot of flame wars going on. And half of us are leaving cause of it. Cause people are being rude to others, people have been hurting themselves, leaving permanently and taking there anger out on friends. Its becoming a war on the forums. Another thing is that why are becoming mortal enemies and hating each others guts over a VIRTUAL VIDEO GAME!?!? If somebody griefs you, you just rebuild it. Its not hard. And you can consider it as a remodel :) easy right? So why are we fighting and becoming enemies over it? Its just a game for god sakes! Stolen diamonds? Go get more! :( i dont like seeing my friends fighting. Jerry, Harry, i know you guys have busy lives, and i can accept that you have a lot of work to do but you guys need to start taking better care of the community. Its turning into a war zone. I know i still have friends that agree with me, but next time timee of you people are pissed off and want to start a flame war, think about it. This is another human being your talking too. You can seriously hurt there feelings. And yes, words DO hurt. Sometimes to the point where you can end someones life with just words on the screen. And then when you meet the big boss upstairs, that kid you bullied will be right beside him. So next time guys, think about it, is this really necessary? Your talking to a living breathing human. Who may be you.ger than you. If you yelled at a kid like gamefan in real life, that would be verbal abuse and you would go to prison for it. So next time people, all you have to do is think. We can make this community a better place. :)
     
  2. Park Shin Hye

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    Im usually very calm, I don't get in rage. :rolleyes:
     
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  3. Odi

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    Minecraft:
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    Good point.
    And caps is considered as shouting you should add that C:
    Agreed
     
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  4. CrazyIcicle

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    Post started off great, everything you said was truthful and would help the server/forums a lot. But then you go and single two people out, I have a couple of points regarding that. Number one, how do you think that makes them feel? 2000 members on the forums and you single out two of them. Now there is two sides of the coin to that, they might not care, or they might feel like absolute rubbish and feel like everybody hates them, doesn't that completely contradict your point about hurting peoples feelings? Number two, they don't even bully/hurt peoples feelings, you don't understand the difference between bullying and not bullshitting. There is many people like that on this planet, you have to realise they aren't bullying or deliberately trying to be hurtful, they give you the truth and nothing but the truth. Too many people on these forums don't understand the difference and quite frankly I'm sick of people wrongly accusing people of being bullys. If you can't handle the truth then you need to learn how to handle it, you can't run away from it for the rest of your life.
     
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  6. John_0696

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    Another thing is that we shouldnt be fighting over video games. :( isnt being griefed like adding difficulty to the game? Thats what makes it fun :)
     
  7. John_0696

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    I edited it. thanks :)
     
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  8. Animoes

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    Good job John, I hope people would change their minds about bullying
     
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  9. Diffracting

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    I agree. This is internet. Don't listen other people's if they bully you. I am calm too. WE need to stop this bullying.
     
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  10. PyromancerMagic

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    Okay so here we go with me and spicy bullying. I am really tired of this in which is why I thank Scorpio for pointing that out. Even though I didn't see the whole thread before you edited it. With the b******* that's been going on right now it's obviously about me and spicy bullying roc.I am getting real tired of this thing is we are not bullying him what I'm also tired of is the fact that everybody sees is bullying.we are speaking our minds, our opinions, and the truth.

    the fact that you are trying to make peace on these forums in then you go single us out is hypocritical. I have told this to roc, I have told Lidia, the fact that I have to talk to you is the last straw. I'm tired of telling people to lay off. I've had enough of this. Vinyl told me you were acting mature about this, but then you take sides and attack us? I don't think so. Stop attacking us for giving our honest opinion. We AREN'T going to lie to ourselves. If you can't handle that, then please leave.
     
  11. John_0696

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    i edited it. :( im sorry about that. i wasnt trying to single you guys out. :(
     
  12. xdd

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    Sorry to let you down John, but these flame wars will never stop. Its internet. These thing will never disappear. Even if we punish someone for starting these conflicts it doesnt mean that other people will stop as well. There is a way to prevent this from happening, but I highly daubt that people will do it. The solution - ignore the post/thread which you think can start a flame war. But most of the people aren't able to do it. From all the anger (or hate) they ignore everything and still do it. JerryAndHarry can't fix it. Only members of the community can. Thats all I have to say.

    P.S. Sorry if I made any mistakes. I wrote this with my phone.
     
  13. Vinyl Scratch

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    I'm Sorry Pyro, But I'm Just Going To Point Out That They Mention You Is Because They Feel Like You And Spicy Are The Main Two People. And If You Have Done Something Negative You Should Grow A Pair And Apologize, Or Is It To Hard? I Just Want People To Get Along.... And If That Is Too Much To Ask, Then Don't Talk To Me Ever Again.
     
  14. PyromancerMagic

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    The one person I trusted...the one I loved...has just turned on me...

    Apologize? Apologize for what? What have I done wrong? This is what I don't get. People are acting like I've done something wrong. If you think I have, then what is it? I honestly cannot see anything I have done wrong. I've expressed my opinions, stated the truth, that's it. Its not like I don't have a right to do so.

    So, tell me, all of you, what I have done wrong. Because I can't see a damn thing i've done wrong that you are attacking me for. All I see is you attacking me for expressing my opinion. Do I really need to apologize for doing something just? No, because there's nothing wrong with it.

    So, like I said, show me what i've done wrong.

    EDIT: Vinyl, its not too much to ask, its something I need your help with. Show me what I have done. I...I don't fucking understand...
     
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  15. Vinyl Scratch

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    It's Because You Expressed Wrongful Opinions, If You Say Something That Could Be Taken Negatively, You Need To Apologize If It Offends Anyone. I Don't Hate You, I just Think You Should Apologize.
     
  16. PyromancerMagic

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    Thats why its called an opinion, its what you think. If it offends someone, then its not my fault. The truth has to be said, weather it hurts others or not. So, I haven't done anything wrong at all. What I have done is just.

    EDIT: Also, please don't talk with every letter capitalised.
     
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  17. Vinyl Scratch

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    Sorry, Its Just A Habbit I Can't Control, But.. Still, You Think Apologizing Might Make Things Better? Please? I Can't Just Ignore This... Please Just Apologize To Roc And Just Let It Go.
     
  18. PyromancerMagic

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    I will, but I need to wait for a moderator to get on. Also, hes not the only one involved in this. There are two other people who still need to apologize to me.
     
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  19. Vinyl Scratch

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    Thanks... But Please Try Not To Make Anything Worse... I still care.
     
  20. PyromancerMagic

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    If something is made worse, I assure you, its not from me.
     
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