Think before you post

This is a message to everyone, Before you post on a thread or on someone's profile, Please consider the feelings of the person that the message is directed towards, Put yourself in their shoes and think about how they may react if you say a certain thing to them.

Remember that everyone has feelings, everyone messes up, and everyone loses it sometimes.

We all have to get along in this community whether you like it or not, otherwise it causes flame wars, If someone has done something wrong then maybe it was not their intention, saying offensive stuff to someone who made a mistake only causes more problems.

Everyone has different opinions, respect that.

A lot of times, messages are taken the wrong way, if someone takes your message the wrong way, don't try to prove them wrong, apologize for not making yourself clear enough. It's hard to admit your mistakes, but sometimes it's what's best.

Usually in flame wars, faults are on both sides, admitting that you made a mistake does not make you weak, It means you are strong, even if you see that the other person has made a mistake, it doesn't mean that they have to be the one to end it, I know that it is hard to back out of an argument when you want to prove your point, But you've got to be strong.

I respect the people who admit their mistakes the most, Because everyone makes them, the sooner you realise this, the sooner you can learn from them, and the happier you will be.



And sorry if I did not make myself clear enough

 

Thats very true albinobat. But I have a question for the Owners/admins/mods What If your mum or dad saw what community was? Im asking everyone what would they do??

 

great words of wisdom albinobat :0 hopefully we can find peace in this community

 

This j&h community is falling apart because of the hatred and bullying people caused. Please stop. And Albinobat you are right. Im losing my friends because of this ;-;

 

this is one of the reasons why i may leave in the new year so yes albinobat you are very right and thank you for pointing that out

 

That's like...the new question. At my old elementary school, it had some really cool poster...saying like:
"Be careful of what you post/say online. What if your mom, dad, brother, sister, girlfriend, best friend, boyfriend saw it?"

 

Wow, John was bad enough, but now you? How dare you. Everything I really have to say here is already on John's thread. Although, I guess I can say this:

You believe we don't think before we post? Think again -_-

We think about what we post. Though, speaking the truth does not require much thought.

The fact that you can't handle it might require some looking into. Either you learn how, or you pack your bags and leave.

 

Sorry for not making myself clear enough :)

 

No, you made yourself quite clear. And stop playing dumb. I know this is directed at me. You one of Roc's friends, and you guys have been attacking me for expressing my opinion about him attacking me. I really love how you see me as the bully, when you are the real one's here, as you're attacking me for something completely just. Lay off. Last warning any of you get.

And don't fret, I shall report this when I'm not on a phone.

TBH, I am done with you guys harassing me. So yes, I DO have a good reason for reporting you -_-

 

Nobody hates you! D:
We never meant any of this towards you :( Please don't act like you hate us too....We never hated you! It's just the way that your being negative about our posts, that's making us look like we hate you! D: Please don't hate us. We really don't hate you, we just want to resolve problems, and the reason albino made this post was to make sure EVERYone, not ONLY you, but EVERYone would make happy and positive posts! (And posts that are relevant, such as such,) so please, don't start this again. :( Im sorry if you feel hate in this post. I never hated you, it's just the way you act negative towards me, constantly solely thinking we only hate you. :( I am really sorry if I made you mad. I really never hated you, and I hope you don't hate me. :( I hope we someday find peace in our hearts.

 

whew. Flame war not flaming up here anymore. :3 But all of you guys need to be respectful to eachother. I don't know what happened, but let the hatered be water under the bridge.

 

Leedle c:

 

Do what the lemur says

 

Lidia, this obviously directed at me. And I'm not talking about you posts, I'm talking about how you guys have been treating me on TS.

But what really passes me off is not only the fact that you think my posts are "Negative", but the fact that you accuse Spicy and Yomc of doing the same as me: Speaking not only our opinions, but the truth.

And even more is that my "friends" are doing this. Maybe you aren't my friends after all. Maybe you never were...

I rest my case there.

 

i apologize if i said anything bad to you. :( i just want you as my friend.

 

If anything, This thread is defending you, like I said, faults are on both sides of an argument

This thread is directed to everyone, even the people that you feel are bullying you

If you want to report me for trying to help you, go ahead :)

 

Defending me? Please, explain how so. Then I'll believe you. Cause all I see is an attack on my actions.

 

Lemurs can talk?

 

Read the thread again, Both sides have faults, To be strong is not to win an argument, it is to end it, and that goes for Everyone

To anyone who is in a flame war, Remember that you can end it any time you want, admit your mistakes and accept that you made a mistake and hope that the other side follows

Everyone makes mistakes, remember that


this thread is directed at the people who see you as an enemy just as much as it's directed towards you, It's directed at both sides

 

...fine...

I still feel like its harassing me about bullying roc. All threads like this do now...