What have you achieved? Whether it is a goal you have worked up towards, big or small, or just a problem dismissed very well, what have you considered a win from yourself? Don't handle this problem like I did... So I went on the bus, everyday, in 3rd grade. A 5th grader and her brother then noticed me... and so the pinching began. Everyday, I would either get my hair pulled, My chair punched or a pinching. I snapped one day when the girl and her brother both laughed as I was pinched... so I leaned over a bit and pinched her brother. Hit her where it hurt. Immediately I felt extremely guilty, though, as everyone (not really everyone, only the bully :P) called me a monster... I wasn't bothered again.