Can you guys give me another chance? Forget the past?

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by Hellotoyou, Jun 22, 2014.

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Give me another chance?

  1. No

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  2. Yes

    19 vote(s)
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  1. Hellotoyou

    Hellotoyou [Legend] Donator

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    Well I would first like to start this off with something happy...ish, I recently got 50 followers, I know for some it might not be a lot, but for me its a huge accomplishment!


    Well, I would like to say, can you guys give me another chance? Can you all forget the griefing, spamming, scamming, and harassment?

    Its hard for everyone to forget, but its worth a try! Ever time I try to sell/buy I get... rejected... and I feel as everyone knows me as the "server bad-ass."


    I mean, I made a video of me giving away free cash, and gave out more shortly before that, but no, that's not enough. I recently got banned for harassment by "JULTAR" unfairly because he killed me when we were raiding together and I just said some simple comebacks. Yet everyone sees it as me yelling at him, but not him being a jerk to me only because he has text proof.

    Currently I am still banned... my bans even extended into the forums....



    But honestly can everyone give me another chance? I wont do "bad" again. Its honestly not like I am asking for "Helper," just another chance.
     
    Hellotoyou, Jun 22, 2014
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  2. Hellotoyou

    Hellotoyou [Legend] Donator

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    who said no

    :(
     
    Hellotoyou, Jun 22, 2014
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  3. Fawn

    Fawn as if

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    It's a bit hard considering all the stuff you did, but we'll try :)
    But if you continue with breaking the rules, don't expect us to give you another chance...
     
    Fawn, Jun 22, 2014
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  4. ewon

    ewon uoʍǝ

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    What Vaicun said. xD How did u post this if you are forum banned?
     
    ewon, Jun 22, 2014
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  5. Hellotoyou

    Hellotoyou [Legend] Donator

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    i got unbanned xD
     
    Hellotoyou, Jun 22, 2014
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  6. pandaness123

    pandaness123 Minecraft Rulz

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    Well i said yes idk about who said no
     
    pandaness123, Jun 22, 2014
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  7. diamond655

    diamond655

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    I don't even know what you're talking about because I just came here because it's a forum about Minecraft and a good friend from another forum posts here!
    I guess I'll forgive you for no reason though. :)
     
    diamond655, Jun 22, 2014
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  8. AACM

    AACM

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    I believe in second chances. Apology accepted.
     
    AACM, Jun 22, 2014
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  9. Kick_In_Ass_

    Kick_In_Ass_ Lol Donator

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    Nice to see you want to improve. Everybody deserves respect, no?
     
    Kick_In_Ass_, Jun 22, 2014
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  10. Netherr

    Netherr Administrator Staff Member Administrator

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    Everybody deserves a Second chance even a third or more actually. So you're forgiven just make sure not to do much bad anymore okay ?
     
    Netherr, Jun 23, 2014
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  11. ForeverTruthful2u

    ForeverTruthful2u OMGEEEE

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    YAS you may sir....
    HAI
     
    ForeverTruthful2u, Jun 23, 2014
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  12. jerkboy2006

    jerkboy2006 Lord of the slimes. c:

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    AW SHIT I CLICKED NO ON ACCIDENT...

    I FORGIVE YOU THOUGH <3
     
    jerkboy2006, Jun 23, 2014
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  13. Huesan

    Huesan Trust me -- I'm an engineer Donator

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    Well even though I don't know u much but I forgive u x3
     
    Huesan, Jun 23, 2014
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  14. KittycatplaysMC

    KittycatplaysMC

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    Kthxbai

    But seriously

    You're a really good friend and I don't see why people wouldn't give you a second chance? I mean, it's not like you nearly killed someone by cyber-bullying or something like that. Lets hope others will give you a second chance too
     
    KittycatplaysMC, Jun 23, 2014
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  15. Jaddice

    Jaddice

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    I clicked the wrong one I swear
     
    Jaddice, Jun 23, 2014
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  16. Heatdude Da Waffle

    Heatdude Da Waffle Admin | Builds Things Staff Member Administrator

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    I never saw what you did that made everybody so mad at you... but I'll explain what I've said to other people in the past who ask for second chances:

    I don't just give somebody a second chance. They have to earn it. What do I mean by that? No, I don't mean I'm going to be rude all the time to you, making it extremely hard for you to become my friend again. What I'm saying is that I'm not just going to forget what happened. I don't suddenly hate somebody for one incident, I'm not that type of person. However, if you've done many wrong things, many times, I have the right to hold a grudge against you for it. That's what you have to get past. By helping me, or helping people, or doing nice things, and not doing those wrong things that you were doing, you could slowly gain back my trust.
    Trust isn't something you can just fix like *poof!* It takes time, and it isn't always easy.
    Think of it like this:

    You drop a plate on the floor and it shatters. Now say your sorry to it. Does it fix it? No. Say that you want another chance. Does it fix it? No. What you have to do is glue the pieces back together, bit by bit, until you have your full plate again. But while you're fixing it, and once it is fixed, you can't drop it again, or it gets harder and harder to fix every time.

    That's just like trust: If you break somebody's trust, you can't just say your sorry and you want another chance. You have to work for that next chance. Once you have it, you have to be careful with it, because if you break it again, it's going to be a lot harder to fix.

    As I said, I have no grudge against you, mostly because you never did anything rude to me, but this still applies for everybody that you did hurt or steal from. You have to work for it, and I know you can.
     
    Heatdude Da Waffle, Jun 23, 2014
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  17. Loling

    Loling KingKylie

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    Apology accepted! c:
     
    Loling, Jun 23, 2014
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  18. BlueChuckian

    BlueChuckian Donator

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    I forgive you and yes, we'll give you a second chance c:
     
    BlueChuckian, Jun 23, 2014
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  19. PhantomStar

    PhantomStar Zzzzz... Donator

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    If you can prove that you have changed for the better, then yes, I accept your apology.
     
    PhantomStar, Jun 23, 2014
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