Thinking about leaving, read here why.

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by Miner, Jun 19, 2014.

  1. Miner

    Miner Retired 5-Year Veteran Donator

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    So I've been really thinking about leaving for the summer, and there's a good reason why. I've tried to keep it a secret, but now it just feels good to get it off my chest and let my courage flow.

    The reason why is just because I feel neglected, disrespected, treated like a doll to be controled and ignored for somewhat reason. I don't know what I've done, but I just try to be nice. It's not my fault if I"m rude, or angry, or nasty or anything to you guys. It's just now people are trying to get me out of things they promised to put me in.

    For instance, one time on Factions, I asked if there was a raid going on. A member said yes, and they'll tp me into the base in a few minutes. I wait a few minutes and I'm waiting for the tp request. They say "That was a good raid! All that op stuff!". I say to them "Wait, wasn't I supposed to be in the raid?" Guess what they say?
    "Oh, since when were you here miner? Never saw you."

    This is just one example, and there are more. Because of this, I feel like its' just my time to pack up and leave. Heck, this is the one server I have fun on, and if I leave here, I leave minecraft. This isn't a good-bye, this is a might be goodbye. Sorry for being a bad person.
     
  2. tommygamerman

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    You are not being a bad person you are being a good person those cyberbullys are being badpeople
     
  3. Miner

    Miner Retired 5-Year Veteran Donator

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    It's not cyberbullies, it's friends and people that I care about too.
     
  4. tommygamerman

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    well there putting you down and that's wrong just tell them you will not be there friend if they keep being jerks
     
  5. Miner

    Miner Retired 5-Year Veteran Donator

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    Just don't post here please. Don't ask why, I'm just not in the mood for seeing coments about de-friending.
     
  6. sebastiann

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    Well, if you need help...I am here for you. You can always talk to me, pm me, skype, the server and TeamSpeak.
    And dude, you're not a bad person. Why would you think that? There is NOTHING wrong with you. Honestly, I think you're awesome.
    I hope this isn't a goodbye. But, if you need a little time if, that's probably best. Hope I can help.
     
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  7. Gooby

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    Dun let those shets in factions bother you and make you not enjoy your time here
    You are a good person from what I've seen
    So dun let them bother u
    Dey just be h8rs
    and
    h8rs shuld bak off
     
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  8. Shadow_Folf

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    I understand how you feel Miner, I have been put down so many times, that I have gotten used to it. If you want to know something truly deep about me (Only for TheMiner so that no one else spreads shitty rumors of me), then PM me. I will talk with you if you wish. Don't leave, that is all I ask of you. Of course, it is alright to take a break for a short amount of time, but I really hope you do not leave, as you are a good friend. Ultimately, it is your choice, but I would much prefer it if you stayed.
     
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  9. DMachine487

    DMachine487 dead

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    I definitely know that situation you're in. I've been here in J&H for years, and almost always have been shunned and ignored, as practically no one responds to me.
    I really hope you don't leave, as leaving now would just mean giving up because things weren't going your way.
    Besides, you are a good guy, and don't deserve any of this.
    I hope this ain't goodbye. I hope you stay. But all I can do is hope.
    It's your choice, I won't try to change it.
     
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  10. ~Bear

    ~Bear Awkward Little Bear

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    Aww Miner, I'm so sorry this has had to happen to you. I had the exact same thing happen. Whenever I came online, it felt like I wasn't even there. I asked questions, greeted people, but I knew inside that they wouldn't say anything back. And they didn't. I didn't know what was wrong with me or why they would do that, but I didn't want to say something because I didn't want people to think I was an attention hogger or something. Anyways, if you don't think the people around you respect you like you respect them, then maybe you should join a new faction or something. It would be better to be in a small group of people who actually listen to you than a big group of people who don't. If your friends who you care about don't care about you back, then they aren't good friends. Instead of just leaving, it would be good first to try and talk to them about it. Not like "YOU GUYS NEVER PAY ATTENTION TO ME Y'ALL ARE JERKS", but telling them that you feel kind of ignored. If they don't respect that or don't care, then they are most likely not the best of friends for you. And if you think you should join a different faction, then there are tons of great factions. Trust your heart. It's whats best for you that you should worry about. Hopefully this helps, Miner. ^-^ <3
     
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  11. Joseph10003

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    I think you are an extremely cool person to talk to and be around.
    Please don't leave.
    A lot of people have been leaving the forums and server lately and it is really just sad.
     
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  12. Netherr

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    This is up to you. We cannot stop you if you want to leave. If you don't want to leave just leave the area where people are discriminating you and all that stuff. If it's almost everywhere just ignore it. At the end of the day however, all the descions will be up to you. I hope you will make the right choice.
     
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  13. Miner

    Miner Retired 5-Year Veteran Donator

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    Thank you guys so much, ill have to think about it. Its a hard decision to make....idk :/
     
  14. YoshcraftMLG

    YoshcraftMLG E.T Sniper~ Actual Sandwich

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    i swear you leave i hunt you and your famiry down
    ou are an amazing and funny and hilarious person miner!! Dont leave me!!
     
  15. Miner

    Miner Retired 5-Year Veteran Donator

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    I never thought I was funny, but thanks for trying to keep me here.
     
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  16. SirCipi5

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    Come on Miner,
    You aren´t a bad person.
    Just try to ignore the idiots and concentrate to the funny things.
    But its your decision.
    Just keep in mind, that there are some persons who are happy when you are here.:)
     
  17. EvilSamKusuma

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    STAAAYY!!! D: ...eventhough I dont know you much but STAAAAAAYYY!!! D:

    Its just sad to see people leave, especially because of these situations. Idk what kind of person you are but I can trust those guys above that you're someone good.
     
  18. Miner

    Miner Retired 5-Year Veteran Donator

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    Thanks a lot.
    It's not just factions, it's almost every server.