For not hitting on a girl that I liked who moved away. Then they called me Mama's Boy for the entire school year.
Well, if I shall go into my history of bullying...it's goes back. Let's start with my first years in school....probably k-2 I will picked on for my height as I am not a tall person. People still do it. I'm not going to go into the horrible things they said as it is in the past. But 3rd-5th, terrible....living hell for me as it still is. I got beat up, many times. People started to swear at me for various things I was at the time confused about. "Faggot" is one of the worst things someone can call you but I've experienced far worse. I never resort to violence in any situation. People legitimately hated me and for some reason still do as I am going to high school. In 6th grade kids got more vulgar with there....insults and it kept going on to this year. I've had comments said to me like "Go kill yourself" "Who wants your here?" "Fuck off bitch" ETC ETC.... And you know what? I've never had a friend to come in and stand up for me. No one. In 2011 I found minecraft, it opened things up for me. And when this server came out, I found my real friends....you guys. The bullying doesn't stop any were I go. Bullying still goes on in this game, school and everywhere I fucking go. What's my problem? I don't know. You know what I do? move on with life. There is no need to feel bad or sorry for me, I'm not big on the attention thing. All I am is glad that I have friends like you people. You guys are the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. Thank you very much for saving my life. Bullying has effected my life immensely but you guys have changed that. And again, I'm not going to go on the other things people do and say to me as it is in the past. Thank you for your time. ~Eli
I get bullied everytime. In real life, and on this internet. I don't know who insulting me by the internet, but I will find out and get the busted. I always get accused of fat, retarded, etc. It's funny because it's a gang of 20-30 whom are insulting me. The worst part: That "gang" has been insulting me for nearly 5 years and I'm fed up. They're always pushing me around, punching me and often fights me while I'm defenceless. Nobody comes to help, so I guess I'm on my own.
I've had bad experiences...but I can't decide between 2... Number 1/5th grade: in 5th grade, I was a star pupil. Very good grades, quiet when needed, friendly, everything else. (This is where my low self esteem started yay). One day I was in my reading class. Doing my normal thing. Turns out at around this time, a kid stuck a big loser sign on my back. None of my "friends" stood up for me. None of them gave me notice. Until my friend Anna came along and asked about if I knew it was there or not. She didn't want me to read it, but I wanted to. She showed me it...I sit across from the kid that ruined me every day, in my ELA class. (English language arts or reading). Number 2/This year and a little of last year: so...this year had probably been the best and worst year of my entire life. I still will never forget everything. Last year, I wanted to start fresh. I wasn't myself. I acted crazy and silly just to impress others. Well, it turns out my ex-boyfriend and a few of bis other friends called me "Crazy Caitlyn". So I stopped being silly all together. I got quiet. This year, more people called me ugly, weird, annoying, selfish, bossy, and worst of all: worthless. I don't know why, but I believe(d) those words. Every one rings in my head like a bell. The guy I mentioned in 5th? Yeah, well for about 3 weeks he pushed me into metal lockers, stepped on my heel, etc.
omg highschool the place where the most bullys live lets get started so far I have been nocked out twice by the same idiot If I got a pound for every pen that was pickpocketed I would make the queen of england look like a hobo I have had my lunch box thrown out of the building about 10 times I have had my locker brocken into and all my school books and homework stolen I have prob been called pokefreak,4 eyes,gamer nerd and about 1000 more insults I can not renember and I have had my wallet stolen about 3 times(3 weeks of alowance gone) and if you do not believe me you have never been to bayside comprehensive school gibralter
Mmm well at my school the 'popular girls' are nice to me and I'm good friends with some of them ^_^ Well, my ex best guy friend told me to cut myself and said "or better yet, kill yourself with bleach" and that kinda was rough on me :I Otherwise, it's my siblings who mock me :P
It happened in January... first day after winter break. There's this trick where someone makes the sign of a circle in their leg with their thumb and index finger, and they tell you "LOOK AT THIS.", if you do, he/she puts the top of their fingers together and count 1, 2, 3 and so on... You have to seperate the fingers before the counting gets too high, because when you seperate the fingers, the number he or she stops on, is the number of times you get punched in the arm. You are supposed to punch very softly, and then rub your hand in the place where you have punched the victim. HOWEVER.... So I was in class with my classmates, drawing and stuff standing up. And then someone, who I'll refer to as "Rubber", made the sign of the circle I talked about a while ago, and I accidentally looked at it. OMG, he counted up to 25, but he actually CROSSED the fingers together. Another part of the trick is the joker goes around saying "[name of victim] invites you to punch him/her!" So he went like "Macario invites you" and everyone was like "OHOHOHO YES!". Everyone punched me softly, but Rubber. Rubber punched me 25 times SUPER HARD and I couldn't take it, so I just tried pushing his hand and arm away to stop him, it was no use. By the time we were going to the school's exit, I couldn't hold it anymore, and cried. Everyone looked at me, asked me what was wrong, even my teacher did, so I told her what happened and cried EVEN MORE. And then Rubber was like "You do it HARDER so you shut up."and stuff like that, which offended me more. So a school coordinator came up to me, asked what was wrong, my teacher told her and then she went to Rubber. She told him next time that happened, he would be suspended for 2 days. And that created a new rule in my school, which applies to EVERYONE. That, was the time that most offended me and hurt me.
So I have a lovely bully story... Last year I moved to the town that I am living at and I was the new, quiet, honor student that only spoke when she knew the answer to something. I had no one and I sat alone at lunch everyday for about a month. So one day this girl named Joanna started to talk to me and we got close. She was really bossy and made me feel like shit a lot, but I needed a friend and I took what I could get. There was this stupid social app going around our school called "Simi Simi" and it was an app where you can talk shit about people and no one would know who it was. So like if I clicked someones name (Like Sam Smith), everything anyone has ever said about that person would be seen. So Joanna was the one writing all the bad stuff about everyone and she said that if I told anyone, she would make hate pages about me on other social networks and would fight me, so I stood quiet. She made me write the names of people she didn't like into a notebook (I didn't want to do it, but she just threatened me all the time) and then someone saw the notebook and... beat me up. Everyone thought that I was a bitch and an attention seeker. Everyone hated me, but then a couple people from older grades knew that I didn't do it and some other kids from my grades knew that I was innocent as well, so they stood with me. Those people are right now, my closest irl friends and they pretty much saved my life :P hehe okay all done :3
To respond to this: Most people that are popular tend to make fun of the lower people because they like to brag, mostly just to make themselves feel good. This is most likely the case, but not all of the time. In other cases, Some popular people make fun of the other kids to make themselves seem cool in front of their friends. Which I do NOT understand.. If I was friends with some guy that made fun of people everyday, I'd take the other person's side. But yeah.. I never really get bullied either.. The worst time when it has happened was when I was an eighth grader, I was a weak little kid with a squeaky high voice, about 4' 9", and I always was around girls.. People really seemed to enjoy making fun of my hair (which was really long at the time) and just me in general. I'd get called a homosexual, mostly because I never talked to anyone other than the girls at my school.. I don't get how that makes sense, because wouldn't that make me like, a "pimp" or something? But that's beside the point. I'd also get made fun of by my girlfriends friends, They'd constantly cause me physical pain, and I couldn't do much about it, Notice earlier in this post how I said I was a weak little kid. So it just went on, every single day of eighth grade, I'd be excluded from everything my friends and acquaintances did, which also made me feel bad. I have much more I could say, But I'd rather not because it involves suicidal issues in my life. Since eighth grade, I've grown a few inches, I'm about 5' 6" or something around that, My voice has deepened, and I'm in a much more mature place (high school).
I now feel pretty lucky. I mean, nobody at my school really gets bullied. My grade is tiny - about 150 people - and we've all known each other since 5th grade, and some have known each other since Kindergarden. All of the popular girls are in their own world, and are actually pretty nice. Whenever I see one of them I say hi and they reply. Basically in my school, the popular kids are the fake-rich ones. Not all of them are fake, but most of them are. They're all really great people, it's just being in the group kind of brings out their worse (which isn't that bad actually). I mean I personally live my group. I'm not sure if they all like me, but I mean I have a lot of fun being with them. A ton of my friends have started dating, and I am really happy for them c: Actually, once in fourth grade though, we were playing on the computers that were insanely slow (I bet most of you know the feeling), and this one guy said "Your brain is slower than the computer!" to me.... People around me started to laugh, and I know it seems a little silly but it really hurt my feelings and I kinda lost it.... I still am holding a grudge against the guy for saying it to me. He actually brought it up a few days ago and he said that he meant it, but then said he was kidding. I'm still not sure what to believe. I feel like I've had it better than I should have though. I used to wear the ugliest clothes, be really big, tattle on people, and kind of follow people around. Once a great friend of mine today, called me a stalker in fifth grade. We are really close now, but I still will never forget that. It made me feel really sad. Overall I've had a pretty awesome life though, thanks to all my friends!
My story is not too bad Lets see... 4th grade... Fourth grade was awful At first, I was kind of accepted by my classmates. It was fun, first quarter. Then i started doing things the group did, bully this now my friend kid named sebastian. But one day, I stopped hanging with them, they stopped picking on him, and resorted to me... One of the kids in the group was my best friend for a while. We hung out in class and did 4th grade stuff. He was the one who started the bullying on me. They called me names, and hurt me in so many ways emotionally. Today im rude to him in middle school, one day he was even like "Youre so mean to me, why?" Another day i asked him why he turned on me for no reason, and he said that he saw that i was getting into stuff like mc and this other game called dragonvale. So, now whenever im around my present day friends i sometimes get scared of betrayal. Oh well, at least i have irl friends and you guys!
I see your dilemma there, I also fear of betrayal by my IRL friends, because of the fact that I play games such as MC, TF2, Call of duty, and such. It bothers me everyday how people can just turn on another like that. When people figured out I played minecraft, and had a youtube channel for it, some started making fun of me, others did not. That is how you rule out the good friends from the bad friends, People that accept what you do in life, and people that don't.
Well, I have one.. One day I got transferred to a new school in 7th Grade and I immediately went all nerd out! I was in honors, acing every class, and people would call me names like, stupid, weird, no life, no friends. And I didn't understand how someone could get so much attention by hurting someone's feelings. Then I met a kid named...(Lets call him Bob). Bob started to introduce me to the popular group, and said he would give me money for doing his homework, and since I have a very delicate and fragile heart, decided to take pity on Bob, and thought maybe he has some issues, and he can't do his homework. Then, a week later, he owed me like, $50-ish? And I went to go get the money, and what do you know..I got beat up. Alot. He said some pretty hurtful things too. He wouldn't pay me, and he said I was stupid etc: Then I convinced my parents to not send me to that school anymore. I literally started skipping schoolwork and stuff. It was a hard time. To this day, I still don't understand how hurting someone and their feelings can possibly make someone cooler, or awesome or make them feel good about themselves. I still have a delicate and fragile heart, and I help everyone to the best of my ability. That's why I don't hurt anyone's feelings anymore, I know how it feels to be hurt.
Well, I understand your point, because, bullying someone and their mates saying "YEAH DUDE!" doesn't make any sense.
I know, I bet if the bully got bullied, he would be very hurt too. I wouldn't want anyone to get bullied though.