Help?

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by Miner, Jun 29, 2015.

  1. Miner

    Miner Retired 5-Year Veteran Donator

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    God, I don't even want to type right.

    I've been in a very depressed and lonely mood lately. Probably because both my parents have jobs that take up almost half the time I'm awake. The house is usually empty with me and my dog. I've been getting worse, and I'm having a hard time finding something to make me happy. I spend my entire day incoherently blabbering with my dog looking at me like I'm crazy, staring up at the ceiling unproductive, or getting bored on the computer really fast.

    I've tried...

    • Watching funny videos
    • Listening to music I like
    • Doing the things that make me happy
    • Eating ice cream.
    I need help. :(
    Anything that's a joke or meant to piss me off, it will be reported. If drama starts, and continues, I will lock the thread.
     
  2. ItsPacers

    ItsPacers Well-Known-Member Donator

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    Maybe hang with friends?
     
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  3. Miner

    Miner Retired 5-Year Veteran Donator

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    Would be great, if I wasn't going on vacation in a few days, and they all had their sport events, or are busy with their own vacation.
    Thanks for trying.
     
  4. OfficerDeadly

    OfficerDeadly Donator

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    Dude Miner ,
    If you need anyone to talk to I am here for you :)
    Just Pm if you need anything anything


    Try going on TeamSpeak :)
    Thats usually fun to do for me :D
    Ask someone to join their channel :D
     
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  5. YoshcraftMLG

    YoshcraftMLG E.T Sniper~ Actual Sandwich

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    Try a MOBA or online game, those keep people occupied for hours, haha. Maybe pick up a new sport or practice a couple of card tricks or something, little things like that keep me busy. Hope it helped!
     
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  6. Joseph10003

    Joseph10003 hi. Donator

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    Talk to me if you want c:
     
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  7. jerkboy2006

    jerkboy2006 Lord of the slimes. c:

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    Talk to your parents about it if you really feel this depressed about it. Or just talk to us and have fun with the community
    as a community, we are always there for anyone in need <3
    And hell, if you can, go to work with them if your able to, i do it sometimes with my dad. He owns a restraunt.
    Try going in warm water or in a pool
    And one more thing that may help you, but I have to ask you a question before I do tell you. Do you like dancing?
     
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  8. sebastiann

    sebastiann Donator

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    I've gone through depression, still am and have been diagnosed and all that shiz. But hey this isn't about me, it's you.
    Some things I recommend doing is,
    - Expression through art, it can be drawing or music. Painting or anything of that nature. Expressing your feelings through art is an amazing way to up someone's mood. I love art. Your kindness is art, anything really can be art if you believe. (That sounds cheesy I know)
    -Try talking with friends (This never works for me but if may for you), but I'm know you have many people who care for you. Hop on the teamspeak and chat with some people, or skype. Human interaction helps some. Communication is key.
    - You said that music wasn't helping, but trust me it may do so. Try listening to some different things. Deep lyrical content always gets me thinking and music has got me through most every hard time. It means a lot. Here's a playlist of some of my favourite songs, I am still adding to it. Here.
    - Go outside, do something with nature. Take pictures or just embrace the outside. It's always soothing depending on the weather.
    - Talk to your parents, if you are feeling "Depressed"; try consulting a therapist. And, listen to me. There is NOTHING wrong with going to a threapist, a session or two may be a big help.
    I'm sure I have many more tips stored up in this self loathing brain of mine, but I can't think of them off of the top of my head atm. If I think of anymore, I will edit my post.
    I wish you the best of luck with what you are going through.
    Please, I beg you. Self harm is never the way to go, I know from much experience. No one should be feeling this way. Ever. If you need someone just to talk to, shoot me a pm. I'm very willing to help anyone.
    I really hope my tips helped you.
     
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  9. Ninjafoya

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    Hey, we can talk on TeamSpeak and do other things besides Minecraft if it gets boring quickly for you.
    Try watching some movies, it makes time fly faster and it's entertaining. :)
    If you feel down, try doing something really upbeat, like exercise. If you get bored, take a jog or something.
    Sometimes it's also good to have some thinking food. ;)
     
  10. Jakesync

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    Maybe throw a party or get some friends over in the day, maybe try joining some clubs if you like c:
     
  11. Meow_kitten2002

    Meow_kitten2002 A potato

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    Talk to people on forums? Make new friends? Find someone you can hang around and just feel happy and have a good time:)