I would like some help

Ok so i met someone on IJAH and i found out he lives close to me maybe like a 30 minute drive.
We chatted all night til 4am i had school rip me. but we talked so much and we video called and everything we were thinking in meeting up to watch a movie or get a bite to eat. I am scared shitless.

 

Is there any way we can help other than saying, well... Good luck :)

 

Well, from what I'm gathering you haven't been talking for that long. I think you should get to know each other a bit more before jumping to meet up because you never know what could happen. If you don't want to do that, I suggest bringing a friend along. You can ask him to do that too just to be safe and so your friend doesn't third wheel. Good luck!!

 

Adding onto that. If you're still unsure of who it could turn out to be, meet in a public place with quite a few people, it'll help bring down your nerves a little because you'll feel a bit safer. Best of luck!

 

I had my longest relationship on here
2 years and 4 months

 

Get to know each other better, chat face to face using Skype or something, bring an adult for surveillance when you're about to meet

 

Did they actually?

 

Like everyone else said, try to get to know each other more before meeting in person.
And when you are ready, just stay calm and be brave. It's okay to be nervous when meeting new people. It happens to everyone.

 

Yeah, totally agree to this. Don't even try to meet that guy if he ask you to meet in a quiet place. Anything could happen.

Maybe you'll meet your "Future wife" here as well