What I have noticed. (About me)

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  1. KaiserVenom

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    No, this is not going to be a thread about me ranting about some huge problem which must be fixed, even if I do mention certain things I would like to be changed. This is more about me.
    I have made another thread about this recently actually, but that covered a different point.
    This is about something different, and I will address some other things to, but I will start with what I think people's opinion of me is.

    People generally think of be as a nice and caring person, or as the opposite as a critical and always sees flaws in everything kind of person.
    Sometimes people think I am funny, but am very mature when needed to be.
    Well, I am all of the above. I can be extremely critical of some things, but I can manage to keep a sense of maturity while doing so, even if people do not agree with me. I am kind and caring, but this is not true when it comes to certain things. This does not mean that if someone is having personal issues, emotional problems, or anything else I will be rude and take my anger out on them just because I am feeling that way at the time.
    It is quite the opposite, I am always sympathetic for these people, no matter what mood I am in.
    My point is that I am not always kind behind closed doors, sometimes I can be furious, as you can tell when I post a rant thread (which I have four of at the moment, more will probably come).

    The good thing is about me is that I know how to act, at the right time, even if how I am feeling would contradict my actions. To be completely honest, nearly a quarter of my life has been me being angry and ranting about things, which explains why I am so good at it.
    This does not mean I am uncaring and rude to others, especially on purpose because my personality tells me not to. Remember how my name is Venom_Snake? It describes how I have the word 'Snake' in my name.
    If you do not remember, I am a fan of the Metal Gear franchise, and that has a lot in common my name as well. Remember, I am no Snake, but I am not exactly a care bear either.
    I stand right in the middle of the fray.

    I have another point to prove also, it is very tied with the point above, but it is different in a way which is worth making another paragraph about .
    Remember how I said I am no Snake? That is because I have a heart, especially for those in need, even if people do not see it.
    Remember who I have 'Venom' in my name also? That is because of the pain that still is hurting in real life.
    This is not a life story thread, and I will never make one, so I will not go into why.
    I am seeking no attention, and I do not care if nobody cares or gives me their time on this thread.

    Moving on, remember how I said some people said I can be hilarious at times, which is definately correct.
    I strive to make people laugh, even going out of my way to do so in public, and on the forums, but this depends on what the current situation the topic, the atmosphere, and the time of it taking place.
    It is no surprise I am being serious right now, but later I will more than likely be a less mature version of myself :p
    If you read everything in the spoiler above, then this next topic is completely irrelevant to it, because I am seeking no attention and never will seek it.
    This topic related to @TheRealSmg 's and @Denisvenom9 's threads about it, which is about how people can be criticized about being honest. I will name some people who have fallen victim to this right now before I get into the second dish of this thread.
    @Venom_Snake (me), @CaptainJackValdy , @Denisvenom9 @TheRealSmg @Sirius (if I remember correctly), @Everyone else I cannot remember, tell me if you want me to list you or not

    Alright. My opinion on this is quite mixed, even if I have fallen victim to it multiple times in that past.
    You cannot be honest 100% time, and if you ever plan to, pick and choose what situations you should be honest on. I say that because if you state your honest opinion on some things, you can offend someone or worse. But this does not mean do not be honest at all, there is a point to where it is definately needed, for example say someone is wrong about something, depending on how wrong they are, you must tell them, because it could hurt them in the future by not knowing.

    This is a problem here because some people cannot take it, even when it is needed.
    I have always respected people's opinion about me, even if they are negative. I can take it very well and learn from it, even if they did not tell me how. The point is so that you can try.
    If someone corrects you on something big, try to see it from their POV, you can see something you haven't seen in yourself, and others. Honesty is not needed if you are going to criticize someone's opinion, sexuality, or something else.
    You do not have to like or agree with their opinion, but you do not have to be honest about it in some cases.
    This is up to you whether or not to tell if you should be honest about your opinion or not.
    In fact, feel free to correct me on this thread if you feel the need to, I appreciate it, but if your opinion is negative, do so in a way to where it does not flame me, try to be civil.
    This is my closing to this thread, and I hope you can all take some of my advice.
    ~Venom.
    This made me feel like such a hypocrite, the reason why I did not remove the hypocritical post is because that would be me trying to hide it.
     
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    Even though I don't consider myself being a victim necessarily, I still respect the fact that you made this thread.
    Like @TheRealSmg said:
    "You shouldn't be hated for having a different opinion" and I tend to agree.
     
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    Dude, thanks for this thread.
     
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    Honestly, I completely disagree with this thread. You are basically apologizing and saying that you dislike others peoples behavior. I don't really agree about being honest all the time is bad. Here is my favorite quote ever:

    "Being honest doesn't get you much friends, but it will always get you the right friends"
    -Josh Lennon (one of the members of The Beatles)

    I live off that quote. Im sorry but you lost my respect from you making this thread. You were saying that honestly is the best policy, now your ranting about peoples bad behavior and how they offend people when they speak their mind. I have a feeling your changing your behavior to fit in and get more liked.

    honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom

    the truth is going to hurt you, you just have to find the ones that are worth suffering for
    -Bob Marley


    conclusion:
    I'd rather be honest then impressive like all of you people.
     
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    This makes me a little sad that you lost respect for me, but I have learned something from what you said also.
    Honestly, I am not trying to change by behavior to fit others needs, but I do feel as if I had a really stupid moment in the mind of Venom, because this behavior of mine basically contradicts what I have been preaching for some time on my part.
    This will not happen again my friend.
    I will include this post in the end of the main thread, and call myself out for being a hypocrite.
    Least I have the guts to admit I'm wrong. You are only making me respect you more, even if you lost it for me, and please do not let this reply instigate you to respect me again.

    (EDIT: I kindly ask you to forgive me for such foolishness, that is all
    There really isn't much I can really say, anymore, I am locking this thread, the message I was trying to convey is irrelevant and stupid. I am taking the blame for this.
    @Denisvenom9 )
     
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