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  1. sebastiann

    sebastiann Donator

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    hi, hello. i really hate asking for help and stuff but
    i don't really know how to put this but i need motivation. like there's things i want to do, and need to do it's just hard to get my motivated to get me to do somethings. i know that sounds weird but yeah. and you know i generally feel like crap. it's hard to explain what im going through.
    so if you guys could post things that could possibly get me motivated and cheer me up. and please please don't post cheesy things (Motivational videos, quotes, "funny videos") because those only bring me down.
    thank you so so much
     
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  2. KaiserVenom

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    Listen to this song, it helped me:

    I know you are probably experiencing what this song is singing about, but it still is motivational.
     
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    SinisterBucky Exemplary Gaming Co-Founder and GM Donator

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    "The first and greatest of all victories is for man to conquer himself." -Plato

    Hope this helps. I quit an addiction, brought up my grades, and partied hella hard once this got through to me, haha.
     
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  4. sebastiann

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    My grades are really
    thanks you!
    thank you, and i asked here because i thought i'd get more feedback
    Thank you!
     
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    justice is nice.
     
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    I'm sorry for what you are feeling, but remember this is only temporary.

    I hope this helps:

    This song helps me sometimes when I'm feeling down or I need motivation or I just want to listen to it.

    Motivation video:


    If you are ever feeling down I have some videos for you :)

    Funny vidoes:




    I hope this helped :)
     
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    Try making a list of what the most important things are and what you could try to do to get them done.
    Also, don't sweat the small stuff. Some things just aren't worth the stress.
    When I'm not feeling motivated, its usually because I'm trying to take on too much.
     
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    I hope this helps Tyler, this helped me last year when I had issues, you can say. Listen to the song recommended by @Venom_Snake because it helped a lot for me as well as people I know
     
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    idk if this will help you, not really sure what exactly will help, and if it puts you in a bad mood im sorrry

    when I dont feel motivated, i usually think about whether i'm going to regret not doing this in the future. usually the answer is yes, i'll regret it, and from there i just try my hardest to do whatever it is I need to do to prevent future remorse. when i get stuff done, the feeling of happiness and being over it is imo better than wishing you did it instead.

    if that doesn't work for you, sometimes setting goals (or challenges with yourself to see what you can do(if you're a competitive person)) bit by bit helps too. baby steps into the thing you wanna do can get you accustomed to whatever it is you need to do and can eventually get you into the swing of things and might even give you some motivation.

    but anyway, i know how you feel, stuff can feel worthless sometimes, like why does anything i, 1 person out of billions, do have any purpose lol but honestly there is no purpose other than to make yourself feel better which i think you and everyone else deserves. but also sometimes, its ok to not feel motivated, maybe you're just not feeling it, maybe it's not the right time. dont force yourself to do something if you really dont want to, and i know thats kinda counterintuitive but really it will put you in a bad mood if you do something you dont want to.

    other than that, depending on what it is you need to do, looking up pictures, pieces, posts, etc. of people achieving similar goals and aspirations usually helps me get in the "i wanna do something" mood

    ALSO If u need someoneto talk to you have me on skype
     
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  11. sebastiann

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    Thank youu, sorry that i don't really have the same sense of humour as others so i don't really find the videos funny
    thank youu, i'll try doing that.
    thank you, and sorry i don't really like motivational videos x3
    thank you! cute why can't i have them
    thank you so so much
     
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    Watch it all, please, or if you don't want to watch read this:

    Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! Now if you know what you're worth then go out and get what you're worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain't you! You're better than that!
     
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    "It is best to conquer yourself, than to win a thousand battles, then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, Not by angels or demons, heaven or hell." -Buddha


    I hope this text helps. :)
     
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    I was thinking of entering X Factor or The Voice Kids and singing this song.

    But then I thought.
    Tf am I thinking, I ain't have a good voice.
    But yeah this is a great song. c:
     
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  16. sebastiann

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    thanks :)
     
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    Motivation? You motivate me more than I could motivate myself!

    Dance while you work, or just dance! You don't even have to be good at it! Dance!
    Sing a song in your head that you love and speaks to you the most.

    Think of the many people you have bettered and use them as your motivation. You have helped them and more ways than you could possibly imagine. You may not know it, or even think so! But they care. They probably wish that they could tell you how much they care. (psst I care)
    You are such an inspiration to me and so many more. I hope that thought motivates you to be greater than you are. Because you are pretty great!! but I know you can reach much high places, just a little time and soon you'll be the best you.

    I hope that this helps and that your smiling to yourself saying "I can do this" "I can do anything"
    Because you can.
    I know you can.
    Go Eli!!!
     
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    Relatable Lyrics c:
     
  19. sebastiann

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    hey so an update, nothing has really changed. this weekend was fun so that kind of helped but im super tired. i did endure for kindness all weekend, from 9am-3am (with breaks in between) on Saturday and 12pm- till now (w/breaks). i'm feeling really down and i don't know why. i helped with a birthday party and my family makes me feel really terrible because they don't really support my gender/sexuality or anything like that. i had to misgender myself all day because my parents were around and they get pissed when i say my real name (tyler). my birth-name isn't my real name. and they all call me names. im not gonna go into detail. i did so much good this weekend but i still feel really bad for some reason. i don't really have motivation, it's like im obligated to do certain things, i don't know. i feel like i don;t have any support with any of my decisions. when i try and talk to my family, they either ignore me or put me down. there's so much going on right now, im so overwhelmed, and i feel really alone. i can't begin to explain. sorry if this is all really unclear, and sorry for talking like this and sorry for throwing all of my problems here. my family refuses to get me another therapist, the last one a long time ago didn't work out. i hate being the person to do this, you don't have to answer if you don't want to. please if you need help, i can always help
     
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