So there's this guy in my school who I've liked for a few months now. It turns out that he knew and my friend heard him talking to his friend about me. At first she didn't want to tell me because she knew how much he means to me but of course I bribed her. So he said that he doesn't like any of my friends and he would only go out with me if I made new friends. I'd never leave my friends for a boy but I've never felt this way about anyone. I really want to talk to him about it but my friend doesn't want me to because then he'll know that she heard him. I have no clue what to do! Does anyone have any advice?
NEVER drop your friends for a guy. 9 times out of 10, they're not worth it. And he should get over who you're friends with, if he likes you. =)
Katy is right. If he's judging you because of the people you hang out with, you should know right off the bat that he's not worth it. If you have friends that are worth your time and he can't appreciate it, then he's not worth your time. There are so many other fish in the sea, and even though it might feel like this is the first way you feel this way, I promise it won't be the last. I totally get you, you just have to see if he decides to respect you or if he's just a hole in the street.
@Katy_ @Stellarite Thanks guys! I was kinda expecting people to say that. It's just a little hard to forget about him. I'm sure I'll get over it soon though.
I'm not a girl, but if a guy is asking you to get new friends he obviously does not understand how relationships work. You don't pick and choose what you want in a person.
I liked a guy and I actually did ask him out, then he ended up liking my best friend. Now both me and my best friend strongly dislike this guy. When in doubt remember this: fries before guys. besties before testes. hoes before bros. <3
Keep the friends. If a boy hates your friends then fuck that person. Friends are more precious then a boy. They'll break your heart and use you. Don't hurt yourself. Not every boy is like this , but it's my opinion.
This thread is basically dissing guys. xD I'm not one to talk about dating, since I've never dated anyone before. Just follow your heart. Only you know what's best for yourself.
Before making any rash decisions, make sure you think about the consequences of both options. If a guy is giving you a ultimatum, then maybe he's not worth it? He should want you to be happy and accept you for who you are, including who you spend your time with.