About thoughts of suicide

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  1. FailedExperiment

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    Hello forums. I've been seeing certain things and noticed a recent halt in Markiplier's videos. From watching his last video, apparently Daniel from Cyndego had passed away from a recent suicide attempt, resulting in brain damage that was far beyond repair possibility. His life support was cut and he passed away surrounded by loved ones.

    If any of you are experiencing reminiscent situations involving thoughts of suicide, murder of someone else, or feeling complete depression in your life, please try to find the nearest help possible. Your life matters more than you think. Killing yourself won't solve the problem, it would only kill the hearts of those who love you.

    Just know that there will always be a tomorrow, there is always someone out there who is an ear to yell into, a teddy bear to hug, and there's always a way for help.

    As for the halt of Cyndego, I wish them good luck and I hope you would all pray for the hearts of all Daniel's friends and loved ones to mend and move on from this horrible experience.

    Thank you for reading, and please think twice before you make the wrong decision, and break the hearts of those who truly love you.
     
  2. teitan

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    These are some suicide hotlines:
    • Argentina: (54-11) 4758-2554
    • Australia: 13 11 14
    • Belgium: 106
    • Brazil: +55 51 211 2888
    • Canada - Greater Vancouver: 604-872-3311
    • Canada - Toll free-Howe Sound/Sunshine Coast: 18666613311
    • Canada - TTY: 1-866-872-0113
    • Canada - BC-wide: 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433)
    • China: 0800-810-1117
    • China (Mobile/IP/extension users): 010-8295-1332
    • Croatia: (01) 4833-888
    • Denmark: +45 70 201 201
    • Finland: 01019-0071
    • France: (+33) (0)9 51 11 61 30
    • Germany (1): 0800 1110 111
    • Germany (2): 0800 1110 222
    • Germany (youth): 0800 1110 333
    • Greece: (0) 30 210 34 17 164
    • Ireland (1): +44 (0) 8457 90 90 90
    • Ireland (2): +44 (0) 8457 90 91 92
    • Ireland (3): 1850 60 90 90
    • Ireland (4): 1850 60 90 91
    • Israel: 1201
    • Japan (1): 03 5774 0992
    • Japan (2): 03 3498 0231
    • Netherlands: 0900-0767
    • New Zealand (1): (09) 522 2999
    • New Zealand (2): 0800 111 777
    • Philippines: 02 -896 - 9191
    • Poland (1): +48 527 00 00
    • Poland (2): +48 89 92 88
    • Portugal: (+351) 225 50 60 70
    • South Africa: 0861 322 322
    • Sweden (1): 020 22 00 60
    • Sweden (2): 020 22 00 70
    • United Kingdom (1): 08457 909090
    • United Kingdom (2): +44 1603 611311
    • United Kingdom (3): +44 (0) 8457 90 91 92
    • United Kingdom (4): 1850 60 90 90
    • United Kingdom (5): 1850 60 90 91
    • United States of America: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
     
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  3. ItsWilly

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    That number doesn't work
     
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  4. teitan

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    I updated it, does the new one work?
     
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  5. questionmark

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    i almost cried while watching that video
     
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  6. ItsWilly

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    Unfortunately, yes, it works.
     
  7. KokichiOma

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    I think that should be fortunately.
    If people can get help it's most definitely a good thing.
     
  8. Juley

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    If you need anything, message me, or call the hot lines, but never, EVER, and this goes to everyone, please do not do it. Its not worth it. Yeah there are hard times in life, but that doesn't give a valid reason to do it. Hard times, mistakes, etc is life, that's what life is.
     
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  9. ItsWilly

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    In case you didn't understand, what I meant with ''unfortunately'' is that people are going through hard times and some ending their own lives, when you see all of these numbers, you kind of realized the severity of the situation. It's sad. So yes, unfortunately, it works. (I'm not saying to ignore it, I'm saying that it is sad what people are going through)
     
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    That is completely true, which is really depressing once you think about it.

    But we have options for everyone going through hard times.
    It is certainly better than ignoring those who plead for help, you must agree.

    We unfortunately cannot solve this with a snap of our fingers, but at least we are trying.
     
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  11. YoshcraftMLG

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    It's the effort that matters. Too many people today think they are not worth it, myself included. It is quite depressing knowing that some people have to live through it through their adulthood, like Daniel. My sympathy goes out to anyone suffering. If you want to end your life, stop and think.
     
  12. MC_Scout

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    Suicide is a permanent soultion to a temporary problem.
     
  13. RealTDITyler

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    I know how it feels to not want to be alive sometimes. If anyone needs to talk just inbox me.
     
  14. LittleGoose

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    Yes, a very important topic to bring up. I have experienced many people loved ones trying suicide and me myself have tried. Please anyone struggling with this! You're not alone. There are people out there who care for you and will help you. Don't think you have to suffer with this alone! Stay strong my darlings. PM me if needed I'm always opened <3
     
  15. NoahMC

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    People make such big deals about this stuff.
    If you're not a kid in africa who isnt being fed, ribs ready to pop through the skin, starving, in physical misery, then there is absolutely no reason to end your life. If youre on the streets with the same scenario, and it doesnt seem to be going anywhere, then maybe it would be used as a last resort. There are always shelters though.

    "But my parents abuse me!!"
    Here are some suggestions
    -Tell them that theyre hurting you both physically and mentally
    -Seek professional help.
    -Call the police if its brutal to the point where your bleeding and bruised everywhere.

    "My life sucks!!"
    Yeah, sitting on a few hundred dollar computer saying that really sucks.
    Having electronics must suck.

    "Im bullied!"
    Tell a teacher
    Tell the bully youre having suicidal thoughts because of them and see their reaction.

    "I have no friends!!"
    Friends online count because they are real people
    Its easy to make friends, just try to make friends with others who dont have friends.

    Like honestly, your life isn't that bad. People on here and all over the internet overreact so much. Taking your life is an honest to god horrible and partially dumb decision. @MC_Scout and everyone else who's ever said it makes an extremely valid point. If youre typing that you want to commit suicide on a phone or computer, then youre in no position to end your horrible life that you have with your computer and phone.



    Had to get this rant out somewhere.
     
  16. MC_Scout

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    There is a diffrence between a braty pice of shit and someone is depressed. This to me is a little unfair to depressed people. I can tell you from first hand that even though I live very comfortably, I still at times end of this haze of how i feel like trash and im miserable. Tts just something that many people in there teens will experience. There are some people that are depressed, by anxeity, or by other things. Those people need profesional help.
    That only makes it worse. Showing a bully a weakness is a bad idea.
    Someone like me, who is very shy at school, and has a very hard time talking to people, its harder.
     
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    One reason why I've had thoughts of suicide- of course I'd never do it, but I did have thoughts of it because of my current status. So basically I did have thoughts of converting to Islam and for the anti-Muslim my father was, you can imagine him and I had a lot of fights and disagreements. Another reason is just the flat out embarrassment of my previous self, like not even mentioning what I did before but just in 2014 in general; like everything I said wasn't necessary and if I could delete everything I posted in 2014, I probably would. I still grind my teeth and this heatwave of embarrassment comes over me when I remember my posts about a game, that you might recognize. I won't go too much into detail, but as far as I know, no one has judged me on my previous actions, give or take a handful of people, but it has been amazing being able to look at those previous immature posts more as an example of my character in terms of being able to change, but every once in a while I remember it and go into a deep sense of fear for my reputation, and I just type something random in the shoutbox to take my mind off of it. They're not paid therapists/counselors but @Kryokin, @Radii, @MappyTurtle and @MC_Scout helped me out with my condition, so in conclusion, yeah expressing your thoughts to someone else will help, it just depends on who has the ear and is willing to listen.
     
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  18. LittleGoose

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    See people who are suffering with depression can't see past THEIR own problems. It's like their clouded in a storm. Like a shadow is following them constantly. It's not they seek attention t anything it's they want help and someone to care for them. You as a person and many other don't understand depression and never will until you experience it. We don't want pity we just want help. We're so caught up in our problems we can never see the light. We feel hopeless. Also don't compare lives to others. We each have our own lives to fight through. God gave us a life he knew we could survive. It's hard and it's for only us.
     
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    There are other things that people suffer with too, there are other things going on the world that someone may end their life over. I actually helped wipe out neonatal/ paternal tetanus in over 18 countries with the help of Key Club international and UNICEF. It was wonderful. But back on topic. Telling someone that if their one the streets and it doesn't seem to be going anywhere, then it may used as a last resort is basically telling them that it is okay to end their lives when it actually isn't the last resort. I don't understand why you would say that. ???
    Sometimes, if a child tells their parents how they feel; it will make the situation worse. It always depends on the circumstance.
    Sometimes the child has bad anxiety and can't "seek help" or their parents are over protective about issues such as this.
    Sometimes one's life may "suck", you can't just asume what someone is going through, or just disregard it. You never know what they are going through, unless they are open to you. And, you never know how a person feels, they may be grateful as hell that they own a computer and electronics.
    Sometimes teachers/authority do something, and the bullies don't stop.
    Sometimes the teachers, etc don't do anything at all.
    If you tell the bully, prolly most of the time it may even make them want to do it more. Because a bully feeds off the attention right? And I highly doubt a victim will tell their bully how they're feeling like that?
    Sometimes it's hard for kids to find friends, to talk to people, and so on. Someone may have social anxiety(or other) and are to shy to talk to people. Why is that completely disregarded?
    How do you know how someone's life is?, what they are going through? We all overreact sometimes, and that's okay. That is a way to express out feelings, and everyone finds different ways to do so. On the internet, through music and artwork, through voice even. You never know. I'm sorry if I do sound a bit rude, but I'm telling you my blunt and honest opinion.
     
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    Sorry but that just isn't true. No one should end their life. Period.

    If you don't have abusive parents please don't give this advice because its not this simple. Most times people are afraid of their parents if they are abusive so they definitely won't want to go talk to them but also going to the cops isn't easy because most likely you will be put in a foster home and your parents will go to jail.

    What does money or electronics have anything to do with joy and happiness? Life isn't about the amount of money you parents have and what toys you get for christmas. Its about connections and living. If anything sitting in front of a computer is the opposite of living life to the fullest.

    If you tell the bully that you want to kill yourself they most likely will just use it against you. And telling a teacher isn't that easy because if the other kids at your school find out they will make fun of you and will not like you for being a snitch.

    Online friends isn't an actual healthy relationship. We may be real people but this isn't a real connection/bond In a couple of years no one from here will be hanging out together. Friends should be people you trust and know. They are lifelong and are a necessity for a happy life. That said some people are shy or have trouble making friends because they lack a common intrest with other people.

    Again electronics have nothing to do with a happy and healthy life and people who commit suicide usually have a mental illness, and not to mention you have no clue what is going on in somone else's life so they could be going through some tough times and you are in no place to tell them that they dont have a bad life.
     
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