An Apology

(This is a legitimate apology. Pleae don't turn this into a trend again unless you actually mean to apologize)

Salutations.

So if you're too lazy to read titles, this is an apology thread.

I've wronged some people, to the point where certain individuals might have gotten demoted over a little paranoia.
I'll tag them at the end of the thread because I'd like to explain what happened first.
So, the story goes a bit like this:
I really didn't agree with some of the things these people said. I thought they were being rude, and I wanted them to stop.
I developed a paranoia of these people. I worried what they were saying behind my back and that they were out to get me. This lead me to saying things that weren't true.
SIf I have ever told you that ANY of these people were harassing me or out to get me or anything of that nature, it's not true at all.
I just hadn't gotten to know them, and maybe some day I will know them better after everything has been put aside. I for one would like that.

So yes. Sorry to:
@Devin610
@Cingle
@BeatleMonkee
@Gooby
@Slevin
@Caity
@Loling
@AnybodyWhoIToldTheseThingsTo
@AnybodyElseAffiliatedWithThesePeople
And more than anybody else, @Jessiee .

I hope this makes things right and sets us in a better direction. :)

 

Throwing the shade away keeps the doctor away :)

This took courage and they will hopefully appreciate your words. However, as you said, I hope this doesn't become a trend.

 

Not trying to sound rude here but I noticed way before you had this paranoia which is not surprising considering I know groups and persons with the same thing about my friends and I. I never approached you about it as I would usually end up in trouble for being "rude" about it. Although every game has an ending it all matters how you play it along the way. I don't know if you had anything to do with my demotion or not and if you did it's over. Although if you did say something to led to my demotion please clear it up to whomever you told, that's all I ask. I've moved on a bit from all this drama. Most of the drama comes from people with big ass egos and paranoia(excuse the language). They know who they are no need to put names down. Thanks for apologizing though, let us remember not to judge people without knowing their true colors and that one person doesn't represent an entire group of persons.

 

I wasn't aware of any sort of rumours about me, but thanks for apologising :).

 

I heard about some of the rumors about me and honestly it made me feel bad that others would make up lies like that. It made others think badly of me and my friends when in reality we didn't do anything.
No one likes it when rumors are made about them and apologizing doesn't always fix everything //:
Thanks for apologizing though. I'm glad you owned up to it.

 

Wow I was involved?
I just think it's kind of really rude to spread lies about me considering I have am not really liked and most people would believe I harassed you if it was my word against yours
I literally haven't ever talked to you since the last time I was unbanned so it just hurts I guess that lies were spread.
:/
So

 

To be honest, I don't see how I was ever involved in this drama.

Yes, I'm friends with all of the people, but I still don't see how I'm involved.

Like, making up lies about people isn't very good, and I feel betrayed now.

I wouldn't talk bad about you behind your back, honest. I felt kind of hurt when this was revealed to me.

I guess it's behind us now.

 

You should have just approached me about it, the sooner I understood, the better.

Honestly, I think I kind of did.
Let's not start shit again but some of the stuff you said genuinely did give me vibes that the "sass" attitude was serious, and things I felt were reportable.
I don't know/don't think that "Devin is being a big butt and harassing me specifically" was part of those reports (Except for the statue incident but that was a long time ago, and that time where it seemed like you were harassing me in BuildIt), but if I did report anything of the sort then yes/the higher ups might read this thread and understand.

Most of the recent stuff wasn't aimed at you guys specifically bar stuff on the vein of "Gooby's really sassy and it makes me mad" or "I thinkstheir being ridiculous about certain things (I won't say anymore than that because I'm not here to offend) etc., and some of the same things with Devin above, but yes, you guys were kind of part of it because I saw you guys as part of the "sass group" and thought you all were kind of a clan with the same ideas/being told to dislike me (which I guess isn't true either)
I say recent because I did complain about sass with some people and in chats too but those were a while ago.

Yeah. Well, I'm not asking you to forget, but all I want is to be forgiven.

I feel awful being the bad person. But I understand it.

 

Me Joining in on this, I also apologize for feeling the same as her, I even got angry at what i thought was the "sass group" too. I mean i understand that some people might take offense to what they say, but really i felt terrible that i treated my fellow co workers that way too. :(

Hoepfully we can work all these things out and let all this drama end. and become a much well rounded community.

 

I've been trying to think of something to say, but I don't know how to say this without sounding rude.

When I first heard what you were thinking about us, I was speechless and I still am. You aren't telling people the whole story on this thread, but I guess I'll sum it up. You basically said that you thought we were going to hurt you physically (as in, we'd go to your house and hurt you) and talk bad about you and you told people that. We could've been demoted and insulted for something we never did.

I hope you calm down about us and if you got to know us, maybe you'd think different, but I'm not sure how we could talk to you, without thinking you might think we'll hurt you. I just don't know what to think of this and this truly bothers me. Thank you for apologizing, but this really bothers/ disturbs me.

 

You have every right to be disturbed. If somebody thought this of me I'd be equally disturbed, but at that point that's what I believed.

If you're ever willing to give conversation a chance, and start over, I would be really happy to. But if not, then I understand. I suggest we don't do anything of the sort though until things have calmed down more though.