Idk what type of thread this is, just read it.

Woo, just had a very eventful weekend.

Sarcasm is amazing, won't you agree?
I'm going to just apologise in advance in case I don't react nicely to anyone.
It's unacceptable if I do, so just tell me...

If you pay attention to a few threads, you may know my dad and I have some issues between us. Very few know about the issues between me and his wife.
Saturday, aka yesterday as of posting this, she came and drove to my house to pick my brother and I up.
I hadn't eaten that morning as there was no food available that was 1) easy to make and 2) breakfast.
It was a two hour drive.
We usually go by train, because its not one continuous ride, and we get snacks for on the train.
Also my dad doesn't have his license.
I was very hungry, and told my dad's wife this, in hopes we would get food, cause I was usually fed by that time.
She didn't.
I stopped after a while, because I realised we weren't getting food.
She then proceeded to stop at a servo near my dad's home.
I thought it was petrol, so I made a joke about the petrol price sign being half in the ground.
She told me she wasn't in the mood for jokes, harshly.
She then told me and dad to get out, and get me food. I was trying to protest I could wait but noooo, Jeanette was angryyyy.
She then proceeded to call me a spoiled, rude brat (and possible a b****, according to my brother).
She didn't cease to push everything onto me, 'its your fault we're fighting' 'you are the most spoiled brat I have ever met' *turns to dad* 'You should be standing up for me, not your daughter' and proceeded to go to her eldest son's place.
We had to walk on foot to the supermarket. All the way across town.
40 C heat, in (australian) thongs. It turns out walking all that way and back, plus sweat, equals some very niiiiiiiiiice blisters.
I had trouble sleeping because I legitimately thought she would kill me.
Like I said, she hates me.
She even pulled my brother aside and straight up told him she never wants to see me again.


As we were leaving, she straight up demanded an apology.
Being the type of person I am, I came at it in a polite manner.
She responded as if she deserved the apology, and continued to say I ruined their relationship, and that everything was my fault.


Because of her overreacting, (or in her opinion, my utter rudeness, which hell, wasn't that bad), they have a chance of divorcing.
Oh, and I'm pretty much not welcome down there anymore.
Woo.

Fun fact: I'm the second female child she's driven out, first being her daughter.


So yeah.
I doubt I will put any of this, stress? Anxiety? idk what is it. But I doubt I will forward any reactions from it onto you guys.
But if I do, here's the explanation.
I am seeing a counsellor, once a week, and yes, I will be telling her about this.

But, any advice from you guys?
It would be nice now, especially since I don't see her until Wed-Thurs.
Should I tell dad that she has treated us like this (not as badly, but pretty bad) ever since they were together?
idk, I'm just in a shaken up mood atm.

 

As i said via skype, I hope your dad divorces that b*tch.
Idk if its just me but I feel like this is more of a Real Life Stuff thread but idk

 

I would have told her off, then say sorry *insert bad word*, then slap her.

I hope things get better <3

 

Thing is, she's very unpredictable.
If she wanted to, she can get my dad to not see me ever again and not pay for my camp.
Apologising nicely means I can see my dad again, and go to camp.

 

By asking advice from the forums, you are opening this thread up to foolish comments. I understand you're stressed at the moment, but

"Sarcasm is amazing, won't you agree?
I'm going to just apologise in advance in case I don't react nicely to anyone.
It's unacceptable if I do, so just tell me..."

is not going to cut it.

In my opinion, you should keep this between you, your close friends, and your counsellor. There are people here that are too young to actually sympathize and give a respectable comment. Be prepared.

I cannot give any advice myself as I have never been in this situation nor am I a trained professional like your counsellor.

Anyways, good luck and I hope you pull through. Hard times are tough, but hope is the only thing that keeps us going.

 

Yeah, I understand about the consequences about this thread.
I've had a lot of support already, and its helped immensely.

There's more to the story, as I've only told about this weekend.
If this thread gets way out of hand, and I'm not online, I give full authority to any staff to close it, if its truly that bad.

That sarcasm part, I was mostly talking about in pm chats aside from the forums, as there are no staff to monitor those. I'm saying if I do act rudely, tell me.
I need to know. I don't want to drag anyone deeply into this problem by making them upset by my actions.

Thanks for that last part tho. I suppose this community and games like osu are the only things keeping me from breaking down atm :L

 

I am not very old and cant give you any help so I am going to follow @YFIOTR . I wish you best of luck

 

''When life gives you lemons,you throw them at your dad's wife''

 

Wow, I really hope she leaves your dad alone, if she really loved him she would treat you like an actual person. It's not just cruel what she's doing, it's inhumane. You deserve an apology, I kinda wanna slap her as well. She may just be dating youe dad for the money. In this situation, I'd hide in my room and refuse all order from her. Not bright, but it's kinda mutual.

 

Lol, she's the one with the money (well, atm dad has more money) cause she owns their house.
She isn't going to give me an apology, she sees everything as my fault.

Fortunately, my mum has full custody of us, therefore I don't live with my dad.
I'm not going down there again, unless they are separated.






























In other news;
I've heard they aren't divorcing ;n;
So it doesn't look like I'll be seeing my dad much in the future.

 

I apologise that that bitch is doing that. She has no right to just come into your life and do crap like that. It's not okay.
One thing I can say though, is that maybe she really is in love with your father, she just can't learn to appreciate you guys. Now there are a lot of situations where this could happen, actually. She possibly could be upset and scared that you might bring your mother back into your fathers life and/or she's scared that you're your mothers belonging, as well as your dad.
I'm not saying you can't blame her, if I were you, id kick her ass to china!

I think what you should do in this case scenario is confront her and stand up to her. Don't let her tell you what to do, she's not your mom. If that doesn't go ell, I suggest keeping your distance.

Good luck mappy.

 

Question: Why does your dad even like her? :/

 

Probably cause she owns her own house.

 

Hmm, You should tell your dad about this

Also why doesn't your dad makes his own house? I honestly don't like stepmothers at all, they are ALWAYS rude and bossy, if I was you Map, I would test her with some extreme methods

Good luck Map, wish ya da best

 

Thanks, although I'm never going there again, so, pretty much never gonna see her again c:

 

Yay

 

o_O she sounds like a bitch...
Yeah, just tell your dad... It's probably the best thing you can do.. Maybe she's jealous because she wants your dad to just pay attention to her, and not any other female, like you? I don't know.. she seems pretty wacky :p
What she said is pretty much like bullying, c'mon she's not allowed to do that... and it could possibly lead to more serious things, if she's that kind of person. Do you have a school guidance counsellor? You could go talk to them, and that might help. Good luck! c:

 

This looks pretty awful。 what I do in this situation is just do everything she says no matter what it is。 That way she can't really call you in-obedient, hey she might grow to like you。 But you're not me。 I hate her already。 Mappy, you are so much better than her I can tell you that。I'm trying really hard right now but I don't know what to say。 Just stay strong, okay? It might not get better but it will eventually change。 Maybe enough for us to find a [better] way to deal with this bitch, excuse my language。
We're here for you。

 

Wait if she is ur dad's wife,doesn't it makes that she is ur mom???

 

No.
She doesn't deserve the title of even being related to me.
I have 1 mum, and 1 dad. That's it.