So this might be a cheezy thread but its about my life, I need support. (please don't say anything bad) Today my uncle died, of a vessel popped near his brain and died. I didn't see him as much, I didn't know him that good. I know what he did in this life that was bad. I wanted to help him. If I did, he would think a little kid knows about this stuff? He died so young. When my parents told us this, I cried but I tried to hold it in. I smiled (tring to hold back the tears) my brother looked at me like WHY ARE YOU SMILING. I wanted hope for my uncle. But all I could do is believe. We are going to his wake. my parents said we don't have to go up to the body and prey. My siblings don't want to (I don't think) I want to. But I am shy, I want to say something to him, But I am to shy D: I am living my life in fear, depression and loss He died a sad death. He was at my grandmothers house and went to the bathroom and the vessel popped. He fell to the floor and died. My grandmother went to check on him xD and she gasped and said he wasn't breathing so she called the cops... then my mom and dad. My uncle was My dad's brother. My grandmother was in tears. I put on my cross, and then I cried and cried and cried. This was the first death in my family, I am taking this badly I cant stop cring. Can some one give me advice on how to let go? My friend told me to make this thread and get support ;D @Katy9078 :D
Aw, I'm so sorry about your uncle :( If you ever need to talk about anything, I'm here for you <3 I had a cousin that died when he was 6 of cancer and my great grandma was 98, so I know exactly how you feel.
Sorry to hear that ;-; my uncle died a few months back and it's been a year since my grandma died! Also I never got to meet my grandpa because he died before I was even born ;-; a lot of people have died in my family! Every time I cried like a baby in a corner for hours and I didn't want to do anything and be with anyone!
I can't be much help I'm afraid, I've lost alot of family and have become 'desensitized' in a way. This website might be useful: http://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief-loss/coping-with-grief-and-loss.htm Sorry about your loss.
I think I am in Sadness – Profound sadness is probably the most universally experienced symptom of grief. You may have feelings of emptiness, despair, yearning, or deep loneliness. You may also cry a lot or feel emotionally unstable. and Depression: “I’m too sad to do anything.”
Wow I remember when my grandpa died, after 1 week my moms grandma (my grandpa's mom) died because she couldn't beer the pain at this old age, my mom was just too sad and stayed with her mom for a couple of days Well, I hope you get better
I sorry for your loss but God controls the future. There is no other way to bring your uncle if you have magic.. Don't be sad due of his death so accept it. The only thing you can do is pray that he is safe in heaven or God's guidance and do it everyday continiously if you are a Catholic. We hope you will feel better
I'm sorry to hear this ;-; I'm useless at giving tips, but I suggest listening to music, music can make you go into a better mood
I have had a great grandpa who died before I even met him I had no close relationship with him and I still feel like I wasn't there but this is about you and please pm because I am here for you :)
best thing u can do is talk it out and no hold it in side of you. Watching my mother pass away on Christmas and working with sick patents like Vinceofcoke said I also to have became like that. It still saddens me to loss Some one, but I'm sure he would want u to be happy and not let it bring u down. Best wishes...
