Breakup....

Discussion in 'General Discussion / Real life stuff' started by nala, Nov 27, 2014.

  1. Blue_Angel_10111

    Blue_Angel_10111 The Main Angel :3

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    You can ask the people who saw my thread about this that I was actually cheated on and not used but then another person who was over controlling for me, its really hard to find the right guy and when you do eventually they may turn away from you and then it makes you not very happy for a while and effects the next few relationships ahead. I was with someone for 4 years and I ended up falling in love until he broke up with me because he then started another relationship with another girl 4 months before we broke up, he was 2 timing which really upsetted me. But don't let your break up effect you future dates because it effected mine because I was in love, some girls fall in love easy and I was one of those girls sadly enough because I thought we could be together forever, what do I know, that was 3 years ago now, I was only 11 then and now im 15 and more wiser. Take my advice and don't fall in love easy with someone when you know they might not last, only fall in love when you KNOW he would be the right one. Sorry for the life story, im trying to tell you that your not alone and that there are many people around you that care and would beat up any person who breaks your heart, im here for you ok? your not alone remember that, and also sorry for my grammar, im very lazy to type properly because I had lots to say and also that guy who used you, deserves to be slapped across the face, I hang around many guys in my lifetime because ALSO many GIRLS ARE BITCHES that would do anything to have their man, happened to me a lot, but anyway to say that not only some boys are assholes but some girls are bitches as well, also sorry for my language UGH. Heres my point.... don't let this effect and destroy other relationships ahead because it would get in the way of life and life sucks yeah but its always your choice of how you want to live it. <3 hope you make the right choices because I certainly did not ;) like what Spock would say "Live long and prosper" :P many people loves yah okey, mwah
     
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    Blocky_Cake11 CAKE | Bigbang is VIP | 2NE1 FOUREVER Donator

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    For all those girls who got hurt from boys, don't stay sad. continue doing stuff you love. Ignore those people who abused you.
    Be happy :D
    People gets hurt and people do hurt others but we need to stay strong <3
     
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  3. YoshiBlocksJHD

    YoshiBlocksJHD Intermediate exorcist first class

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    Hey Xander, remember you have us!
    If anyone uses you they are complete sacks of lard and shouldn't even be here right now because you are so much better than a jealousy brewer. Once you find that man, all of his friends will be jealous because you are probably beautiful and smart and caring and oooh maaaaan look who's gonna be jealous then?!
     
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    KittyGoddess16 The Goddess of Kittens

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    *Picks up shotgun*
    Alright who do I have to shoot!:cool:
    No one hurts pokemon buddies and lives.
     
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    Hellotoyou [Legend] Donator

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    Someone once dated me for them to get HW help than dumped me.
     
  6. nala

    nala A cat in a sock

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    Thanks and I agree...
    Thanks...
    I know and thanks...
     
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  7. Xander

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    I think this is pretty self explanatory
     
  8. nala

    nala A cat in a sock

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    Yes...
    Thanks...
    I saw.
    Thanks...
     
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  9. KokichiOma

    KokichiOma Ultimate Supreme Leader Donator

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    Although not all guys suck... Some do.
    Enjoy the single life for a while, it's not as bad as you think ;)
    Enjoy life as it goes on. Maybe you'll not be happy with him. Idk, and neither do you <3
     
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  10. Xander

    Xander

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    Why is my name in there? 0.o
     
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  11. maymay

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    Boys are complete assholes sometimes
    But trust me you'll feel better
    Somebody will help you through your pain if you just talk to them about it
    Stay strong though
     
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  12. TheBlackHamood

    TheBlackHamood Feel Pain, Accept Pain, Know Pain

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    Boys aren't jerks, even girls can do dis
    I know a friend who her boyfriend did that to her

    Well, my advice is to get help from your friends
    You can find someone better
     
  13. nala

    nala A cat in a sock

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    *Points to the guy* He did...... you know what to do....
     
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  14. jenn

    jenn Donator

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    Fact: most boys are less immature when they are young.
    Fact: you will be fine :)


    Finding the right person can be hard, I know. But good luck to you,
    Hope you find the right person soon :))))
     
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  15. Xander

    Xander

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    Strange, I seem to have gotten more mature with age.
     
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  16. jenn

    jenn Donator

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    It happens Like this:
    Example:
    Boy, age 11- immature
    Girls, age11- growing
    *5years later
    Boys16- 65(?)% mature
    Girls16- 85(?)%mature
    Age 20 (both)
    Mature
     
  17. Xander

    Xander

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    When I was 11 I was quite mature,
    I guess I'm just different :P
     
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  18. Enderbrine

    Enderbrine うちはサスケ

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    *Huff*
    I feel you.
    I was once dumped and being used for jealousy, if you feel pain of being used by this person. This person is a man who never lets go the love on his previous gf, in thi generation. Most young ones never let go or accept the fact that they were dumped by their own girlfriend, I am also a jerk too. I once used someone just to get this girl, but as time goes by as I got the girl I wanted. I felt that I just waste my time on someone that I used to love. Realizing I broke a girl's lonely heart, I got the courage to say to her that I am sorry.. Even she slapped and kicked me many times as many as how I hurt her, but at least she forgave me. (Forgiveness can be painful as hell) Here's what I am going to say,

    Remember that there will be a time that true love will encounter you, try to forget the fake love was made between the both of you. Try to avoid the boy if you can, stay strong in your heart even it is painful to remember the fake love. And remember that NOT all boys are jerks, there are nice ones. (I am not nice one in my own perspective)
     
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  19. Lethalities

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    Some boys are because of someone who created bad things

    If you are been used you tell it to your:
    Parents
    Family siblings
    Police (if you can feel to say it)
    goverment friends
    and other strangers

    If you still sad you should:
    Play Minecraft like always
    Prank your ex boyfriend
    Tell this "Lie" to everyone
    watch movies
    listen music


    I wish you feel better
     
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  20. jenn

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    -_-