Sorry about that.

Discussion in 'Server Discussion' started by amboyscout, May 1, 2014.

  1. amboyscout

    amboyscout

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    First things first, I hope we won't start another flame war.

    Second, @Gthang77 thank you for closing my thread before either me or @Fluttershy's Assassin could carry that any farther.

    Third, the thread that i recently made was purely informational so people had the full story about what happened with my "betrayal". It wasn't supposed to be a drama thread or a flame war.

    Fourth, what follows will be some information i think you should know about me, what i didn't say in that post that i should have, things that we need to learn as a forum, and some things that i didn't think through clearly when making the post.

    1.) I realize that the kicking people out of the faction wasn't necessary, but I want other people to realize that I am a human, and humans make mistakes. I also want people to realize that i had my reasons.

    2.) Minecraft is a game. Things in a game should be taken WAYYYYY more lightly than in real life. That says alot about most people on these forums. That is coming from the diehard fanboy of minecraft that i am.

    3.) @Nick0309 said something along the line of me having anger spurts. That is true. However, people should know that they can just assume reasons for things. Assuming makes an ass out of u and me. (ass(out of)u(and)me) this applies for EVERYONE.

    4.) The reasons i have those anger issues are because my dad has lived in my house while sober for about 1 year accumulated total time in my life, my dad has liver and internal bleeding issues, and i have been bullied since i was in 1st grade(by teachers and students(most of my school(90%))). Because of these issues, i take everything more seriously.

    5.) (More about me) That bullying started with 5 kids who were "popular". They shoved prejudice propaganda into the minds of the rest of the school causing 84% of those people. The other teachers were just mean in general, and my anger issues just made it worse.

    6.) I am extremely stubborn, deal with it.

    Fifth, I hope that we can forget the things that we (@Fluttershy's Assassin (perc), @Nick0309 , and I) have done wrong.
     
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  2. Kimme

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    1) If you kick someone, they should respect your decision and learn from their mistakes of why they were kicked (unless you kicked them for some reason like "You dislike tacoes" but otherwise..)
    2) Its still a fun game xD I stay on the server because of the excelling and tightly knit COMMUNITY, not just the game. I love this server sm because of the people here who are so kind and supportive :)
    3) Not everyone becomes an 'ass' when something is assumed of them. We all have our moments where we go over the top, but we all have to learn that like you said, "It's just a game", and things shouldn't be taken seriously. When in a situation, and this applies to irl, try and remain calm, because if you are just spitting out 'word vomit' (mean girls ref xD) then you won't get anywhere.
    4/5) We all have had tough lives, I've been bullied a lot too, and sometimes by my closest 'friends'. You have to learn to see the positive things in life and for other people and your own sakes, try and ignore those things the time being. I know it's hard, but you have to learn not to lash out at anyone or anything and we all have to do it eventually, but just fake a smile until you make it. If you are a pleasant person, even if it's only on the inside, it's so much easier for someone to approach you/talk to you/etc. I'm sorry about everything hard, and I have some things in my personal life going on too, but I can't let it get in the way of things. Once it's over, good or bad, its over and you'll realize you spent much too long worrying about the past. As cheesy as this sounds, live in the moment x3
     
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  3. Syborge

    Syborge The OuterRim. Donator

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    Thanks for telling us. Hope this will resolve the recent drama...

    -Syborge
     
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  4. amboyscout

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    Thank you fore being more accepting of this post :)
     
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    Kritt Bored Donator

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    Well, I mean he literally kicked everyone for no reason soooo..... I logged on one day and I did /f home and it said I didn't belong to a faction.....

    Anyways this is a much better way to approach the problem. I appreciate you realizing that you made a mistake, and you seem to be learning from it. This probably won't start a flame war, thanks for the apology.
     
  6. amboyscout

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    o_O I didn't kick you..... I think @PresidentBacon did. I kicked @Gthang77 and @Magical_Sparklez
    Also, i put my reason in the last thread 4 times :p
     
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  7. Gthang77

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    I'm glad that you wrote an apology but can I ask "why" you kicked us.
     
  8. ANumber2Pencil

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    I think it was his honest answer because he didn't want you to raid DWG but he just didn't think it through >_<
     
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  9. PresidentBacon

    PresidentBacon Barry B. Benson

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    Umm no. I left before all this started because I knew you'd do things like this.
     
  10. amboyscout

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    *facepalm* And how would you know that. Also, you left waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy before anything like this happened, in fact, close to when i noticed kriter missing from the fac. There is no ned to flame me either.
     
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  11. Zaspar99923

    Zaspar99923 Cube of Rubik

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    Well when DWG found out that the nether wart farm was empty and there were no members in the faction left, he would assume that you have betrayed the faction. You should have left a sign explaining what you had done
     
  12. amboyscout

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    Also, about 1/3 of it was left. In addition, he decided to assume and make an ass out of him (u) and me. assume
     
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    Zaspar99923 Cube of Rubik

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    Yes but at the time, DWG would have full authority to think that you had betrayed them...
     
  14. amboyscout

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    Yes he did, he still shouldn't have completely flipped out before talking to me.
     
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